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Finally, there is a website that shows true educational information about sex and the human body without the porn side of it!  There is nothing worse then showing that sex is normal and then when you get into the website, all they show is porn.  No wonder so many parents are confused in what to teach their own children about the human body. There is nothing dirty or wrong about sex. Please do not allow these porn sites, myths about sex, and all confusion make you think that your body, having sex is something dirty, bad, immoral, or whatever negative concepts society throws at you.

While I am thinking about it, please do not allow society to stop you new mothers from breastfeeding your children, no matter what age they are.  When you do stop breastfeeding your children is no one else business.  It is between you and your children.  A lot of the trouble in the USA in regards to the human body is due to violation of privacy.  If people think a mother should stop breastfeeding their child after year one, then that is their believe.  Another words, if a mother wants to feed them when their own children are read to stop then they have the right to do it.

 

 

 

Now back to this posting.  There is a big danger in not teaching your children about the human body.  Teenage girls are getting pregnant before the reach the age of 16 years old.  Since there is nothing wrong with sex in it self, there is a danger when ignorance is mixed with having sex with someone.  I have said this many times and I will say it again, "I have seen photos online of teenagers have STDs or STIs that would make the best horror movie win best comedy of the century.  This can all be avoided if you the parent teach your own children about the human body.  Just teaching them to wait to have sex before marriage will not cut it!

 

 

 

 

What you the parents can do for your own children in the home before they become sexual active in their own bodies, can make a large and important reality to your children.  All that is being shown on the media about sex is not reality whatsoever.  The purpose of showing sex in ads is to sell things with sex.  First of all that has nothing to do with sex.  It has to do with hooking the viewer to buy an item by how they present the ad.  The human naked body is not meant to be used as a advertisement.  Our bodies have something more profound then something that simple.

Our bodies are meant to have sex.  All animals including human beings are given a sex drive.  With humans, it starts to develop in the early teen years of life.  I strongly believe that children should already know all about the human body long before their hormones starts to develop.  With this rush of hormones, it can be very scary at first.  Some teenagers can have a very powerful sex drive.

On the parent's perspective, I would not jump on to the doctor right away.  Unless your teenage child is all the sudden not functioning as he/she did before, then things are as it should be.  If you trained your child right about the human body, he/she will be able to handle the rush of this.  Trying to stop or slow down the natural flow of the natural on going of this strong hormones could cause more damage then you may realize.

At this stage the whole body, including the psyche, is developing at alarming rates.  Every part of the teenage body is rapidly getting ready to be what the DNA has programmed it to be.  Medical science might be needed, but it should never be used to silence what is natural because of fear on the parents side or even the child.  I see too much of this with parents.  True, order in life must be constantly adjusted in life, but not in the expense of natural life.

At the bottom of this blog is the link to the "Sex Health Guru" website.  I also have this link in my other links in this blog.  If parents due not know how to raise their children in learning all they need to know, which is just about everything, then I hope this website will help.  That is why I have written this blog in the first place.  To help parents be parents in this regard.  Ignorance is no excuse whatsoever.

 

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Given Name:  Brandon Bowers

 

 

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Alasandra's Homeschool Blog Awards: Zero reasons not to homeschool

Parental involvement is ever so important. From all the negatives that I hear about homeschool, I believe is the result of not understanding the purpose of parenthood. Lately all that I hear about school systems is that they think they are the only ones that can rightfully teach children. This is against the Constitution of the United States of America. The state does not raise children! Parents do, or should! The purpose of state education was to teach academics to the students. Now they do all they can to take away parental rights. Sad to say most parents stated this. Do to bad parenthood, something had to be done.

Now it is way out of hand. What needs to be done is the law needs to go after these bad parents and get them to be parents. If both parents have to work to make ends meet, then that is not an easy task as it seems. I am sure a lot more homeschooling could be done if the economy was a lot better then it is today. A great deal of parents are not happy with how the school system is running and teaching their children. To solve the problems we all face, it will not be an easy clean up. It took many, many years to have us in the mess we are in as a nation. It will take at least that many years to clean house if we are willing to do the hard work.

The purpose of talking about this article in this blog is the reason why I started this blog in the first place. There are things that only parents can teach their children. As I have stated many times, "It all starts in the home." Why do you think we are so confused in our thinking today? Through generation to generation parents have not taught their children properly. They give these parental responsibilities to everyone else: The local church, schools, and other children social groups like boy's and girl's scouts. What are the parents doing all this time? Instead children are having a large number of parents when they should be having up to two. I have seen a mother raise their own children because their father died in a war or other reasons. These mothers have done a great job. There is no excuse for parents not doing their jobs and do it to the fullest.

The results of negative parenthood for children are usually on the streets because their parents run them off because they have not excuse to give them someone else. Sad but true. I have read that some parents run their own children out of the home before they become adults, go to college, and get a career started. One time I was watching this television show about how cops work in New York City. Most the the prostitutes are teenagers. Some leave home and become prostitutes just to be loved. Sex can be a form of loving, but prostitution is not.

The main purpose of this blog is to allow parents to see they can make a giant difference in their children's lives if only they would do their jobs and do it right. It is a lot to be proper parents. Anything worth having is not easy. The reward of parents doing their jobs right is priceless.


Blessed Be to Isis and you,
Brandon Frater Phoenix



Alasandra's Homeschool Blog Awards: Zero reasons not to homeschool

How Should Parents Teach?

I have for a long time with many postings on getting parents to teach their children about the human body.  The reason why is surely understandable.  Children's bodies develops into maturity starting with the teenage life.

 

I have several answer the survey that parents allow their children to learn on their own.  If their is a proper parents guidance to make sure their children understand the negatives and not to be dragged by them, then they can teach themselves.  I have learn all that I know by myself, but I would not directly suggest this.  The media is a lot worse then when I was growing up.  There a lot of fee porn videos out there that so many children/teenagers can get confused with.  What is being shown behind the eight ball with these videos is that it is okay to treat any females like a sex object.  This attitude can lead to rape.

Proper teachings of the human body will not learn to any misconduct of any sexual activities.  Knowledge controls.  It does not lead to rape or child abuse unless parents wants to teach them things like that.  Since parents are normally are not this way, then parental teachings of the human body will not lead to any misconduct.

 

After this video, what do you think parents?  You see children/teenagers already know about their human body and sex.  How would they think if you taught them about the human body before they became sexually mature or active?  This is real everyone.  When children learns bits and pieces from the media, then they will end up as shown in this video.

I am writing this blog to express my frustration and sadness of the lack of parenthood dealing with teaching about the most wonderful and beautiful thing in the world, the human body.  When I learned the right way of the human body, I had not true issues with the human body or sex.  I was in control because I had knowledge of it.  Scientifically one can say that Hollywood does not cause teenagers to have sex, but they do not do anything to be responsible of their own bodies.  There is a lot to learn about the human body then sex practices, or the maturity there of.

 

I have said this before.  Children can be kept away from all the predators if they are taught by their parents about their own bodies. When children are taught at home to the limit of their capabilities about the human body, then the better it is for them to deal with all the ugliness that comes out of child abuse.  When children walk into the web of predators, then it is way too late for children to deal with protecting themselves.

Parents cannot wait till congress comes up with a better idea in teaching children in schools.  Children have parents for a very good reason: to be taught by them on things that only parents can rightfully do.  Schools cannot teach about values. Churches cannot do this either.  There are way too many children even in a church for them to teach properly one on one.  Some individuals or faiths have even abused children sexually as it has been on the news lately.

When parents can spend quality time one on one with their own children then that can make a giant difference with their children.  No one know their children then the parents.  So what is the right information vs the bad?

 

Sex Education Learning The Truth (part 1 of 3)

 

Sex Education Learning The Truth (part 2 of 3)

 

Sex Education Learning The Truth (part 3 of 3)

 

After listening to these three audio message, parents do you understand that you can be the only one to teach your own children.  If you want to allow your own children to teach themselves, please be there for them if they need to ask questions.  By being there for them for the great deal of their lives while they are children, you can be there for them on other reasons then teaching them about the human body.  Only you as parents can make a big difference in your children's lives.  Please do the right thing.  Thank you for your time.

 

Brandon