Personally I do not believe that one can truly be addicted to anything. Being chemically addicted to something is a whole different thing. Do we know what is in cigarettes? Smoking is an addiction. Can sex be an addiction?
With so much religious dos and don’ts with sex, no wonder so many are confused with sex. What is going on with people on sex. What is the difference in loving sex and sexual addiction. Believe it or not, there is a difference. What are people really craving when they want so much sex? I have said before, if one watch what they are walking around, they will find the true answers to what they seek. We walk around the bushes with sex and sex education that we end up confusing ourselves more and more.
When children are abused in every way, they are traumatized. When children are sexual abused and grow up to be adults, they crave something that they did not get as children. That crave is NOT sex. They got that all during their childhood. They crave love or intimacy.
Due to our fears of sex, we end up accusing children that have been sexually abused as whores. I believe that when you see people going for something else to stimulate them, other than reality as a whole, they are screaming for help. They unintentionally us these so called addictions like sex, to tell everyone around them they are suffering over something more profound. We might need to look not at the addiction, but read between the lines of what these individuals are telling us. Actions and pictures can speak volumes if only we pay attention to what we see and hear.
Another problem we all face is the religious side of sex. What most clergy will teach that sex is bad, sinful, and right out evil. How did those clergy members come to existence? Each and every human being came into existence due to the result of our parents making love/having sex. That goes with every species on Earth.
In stead of teaching sex is a sin, we need to properly teach our children about the human body and the responsibilities of it, including sex. Making love to the one we truly love in life is a wonderful thing. Our bodies and our soul cannot love everyone in such a manner. That is what makes pornography so unnatural.
How I see it, sex is not a sin, nor is it addictive. Like believing in Voodoo, we can believe in something so strongly that we end up being slaves to that belief. Can that be an addiction? Yes it can, but that does not make sex addictive. As in the first video, we heard that “sex’ is not considered an addiction by psychiatry.
What I believe is the real issue facing sex is religion. It has gotten us so confused with sex and the human naked body. Teenagers are starting to believe that they are committing a giant sin when their bodies start to become sexual active (puberty). Their own parents gives them the silent treatment. That alone is traumatic enough. When school teaches it, they teach that having sex can kill them due to STDs.
The only education they get on sex is from the media. What children needs is love and intimacy. When parents goes out of their way to teach their own children about they human naked body, then they are showing love and intimacy to their children. Believe it or not, children as well as adults are constantly learning. Either they learn from proper information or they pick up garbage.
What I believe leads to what is called, “sex addiction” is the misinformation or the lack of it from both parents and the educational system. Only dogma religion and ignorance causes complete mayhem. Religion needs to mind its own business. Parents and schools needs to start doing their jobs right. We might as well say that anyone that is not religious are evil. Would that end the sex issues? NO!!
Does Sex Addiction Exist? (page 1)
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