Image via WikipediaEver wonder why so many children/teenagers are so confused with the human body and sex itself? That is simple to answer, but most parents will not like my answer.It is the parents that are responsible for teaching their own children, in the home, about sex! There are far too many STDs (Sexual Transmitted Diseases) and unprepared pregnancies in most teenagers' life today. Why do you think man lives longer? They are to be raised in the home by proper parenthood. Sex education is just one of many responsibilities that parents have for their own children.
Schools should not be teaching this to children, but due to the lack of responsibilities in the home, they have to do so for the sake of the future of humanity. What is so scary about the human naked body in the first place? The human body is much more than the genitalia, but it is the most important aspect of learning about our bodies and how we should take care of it. Knowledge is power, not ignorance. That is why it is so important for parents to teach their own children about the human body.
How can a complete stranger, even a teacher in a public/private school, teach children completely about their own bodies? Which will the children ask questions on what they do learn, their parents or a teacher that cannot fully give them the answers they are needed to know? Either teenagers are going to learn about the human body from their parents or from outside sources, which is 98% of the time incomplete. Ladies and gentlemen, once children learn something in the wrong manner, things become more complex!
Do you want your children to learn about their own bodies from strangers? Believe it or not, teachers are strangers no matter how much education they have. You know or should know your children more than anyone on the planet. In all the means of children learning about sexuality in schools or anywhere outside the home, it is hardly 20% of what they need to know.
That lack of full and complete knowledge, that parents can only provide, teenagers will be more confused than ever. There hormones are at a peek as it is during their teenage years. With poor to no understanding of who they are physically, more confusing will be added. I do not understand it. What is so hard to teach your own children about their bodies?
How is a penis and a vulva so terrifying? It is the lack of knowledge of these important body parts that is causing all the problems with STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and all the turmoil. Sex or anything else in life is not moral or immoral in itself. It is a part of life...no more no less.
For human beings, sex is more than procreation. It is the peek of showing love towards the one that is being loved. It is the ultimate form of expressing love to the one that is very special to the one that is giving pleasure toward. Think of sexual intercourse as the ultimate form of art that cannot be fully explained. It only comes crashing down when teenagers have sex and gets some form of sexual transmitted disease, a female gets pregnant when she is a child herself, and all the other confusing that would take forever to enter in this blog post.
Only the Aramaic Religions makes sex as something dirty and immoral. These religions also makes the human naked body immoral also. This type of propaganda has caused so much confusion, it is no wonder so many hates religion as a whole. Later on people come to realize how arrogant these religion like Christianity has become regarding how we look at our human bodies. SHOCKER folks! The human body, naked or otherwise, is not immoral!!
As human beings, we are given something in our lives that far reaches any living being on this planet, the means to think rationally. We can follow all sorts of thought disciplines. No living creature can out class human beings. Our bodies are important as our minds due to it is attached to us and completes us as human beings.
What is so dirty about a penis or a vulva or any part of the human naked body? Have you ever wonder why we can be attracted to pornography? Sexuality is a form of art, the art of expressing love for another and towards another as we share in that love. The difference in porn and reality is simple, we are not animals to the extent we should have sex with anyone at anytime. The human body is not designed to have sex in such a fashion. That is why STDs are a big issue today.
I ask you, my readers, what is so dirty or immoral regarding the human naked body in both male or female? What do you see that repulses you? Believe it or not, it is the propaganda that is fed to us by misguided religions, lack of proper knowledge, and out right stupidity. True we are not animals in the sense of acting like jerks to the high degree, but what is worse, behaving like animals are being ignorant of who we are in life? Nudity is not a sin folks! Ignorance that knows better is a lot worse!!
What makes pornography so bad is not the naked bodies and sex, but the irrationality of it all. Being naked or having sex is not what is immoral, but the lack of understanding it which can lead teenagers to have their future crashing down on them. If you can see the pictures of the aftermath of teenagers having these diseases. It would make a horror movie appear to be a comedy by comparison.
The unneeded suffering they go through after one or two sexual intercourses. Once they get any STDs, the rest of their lives are completely destroyed. It is too late for parents to teach their children about sex and the results that could happen. The reality of the horrors they will face for the rest of their lives is upon them like a ton of bricks. All this could have been prevented by having their parents raise them properly.
This blog is not to say all disasters regarding sex is totally the fault of the parents, but I will say this: More and more parents are not raising their children properly. If I am wrong then this New York Times article would not have been written. It is not the first time this has been talked about to the mass public. This problem regarding parents not teaching their own children about the human naked body has been going on for generations. The misconception have to do mostly with Aramaic Religions.
They teach that sex is wrong. Sex is a natural part of life. It must be taught right in the home by parents and not schools alone. There is a place for the educational aspect of learning about the human body, but the basics of sexuality should be in the home, PERIOD!
There is nothing dirty or immoral regarding our bodies. If most could see past all the misconceptions that religions and so many organizations that has confused this issue, then one will see the beauty of our own bodies.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/08/10/nyregion/in-new-york-city-a-new-mandate-on-sex-education.html?_r=1
