Human Body

Is it sexual abuse when parents have sex in front of a child?

2011-12-04T20:08:00.000-05:00

Jun 21, 2010

Give me a break!
by: Anonymous

I grew up in a home with loving, generally conservative parents who genuinely cared for my well being. They were honest with me from a very young age about the truths of life, including sex, and didn't attempt to shelter me from them. Instead, they attempted to teach me about life truths so that I would understand them, and not fall prey to misconception and/or peer pressure. They explained that sex is a natural, beautiful thing that happens between two people who care about each other. They also taught me about the possible consequences, good and bad, and stressed that I should refrain from having sex until I was absolutely certain I was able to deal with them responsibly. As a child I saw and heard my parents having sex somewhat frequently. There was nothing exhibitionist or inappropriate about it. There were times, such as vacation or camping, when avoiding their encounters was not possible, but most of the time I would just leave them to their business. As a maturing young male, I actually learned many things through observation about how to be a considerate partner and make love (not just have sex) that couldn't be adequately conveyed in conversation, and that pornography is wholly incapable of portraying. It seems to me that the problem isn't so much that having sex in front of your children is itself damaging, but that a lack of thoughtful parenting, and critical thinking about how to prepare your children to deal with sex, and indeed other life truths, that's the problem.

Here is a good quote from a person that is not me at all. Even though I did not write it, I agree with it completely. It is not that sex or anything is good or bad, but how it is taught...by parents.

Believe it or not, sex is a very important aspect of life. Where would we be without reproduction? Where are we with the lack of sexual understanding? This blog is not to teach the details of sex, but it is to show the importance of parents teaching it to their own children. When I read this article, I knew it would be good to help represent my cause.

In this article, you will read very serious negative comments. Sadly this is the results of bad information and horrible religious trolls. If parents follow this concept of the comment I pasted in the beginning of this blog post, there will never be any issues. Sex is not an evil thing. It is a wonder experience that two people share with each other that love each other dearly.

It is how you teach your children that allow you as parents to know what to do regarding them seeing love making by you. In ancient times, children saw a lot more that is mentioned in this article. It is amazing that we can make a big deal over what has been seen in human history. Some even made love with family. Some from ancient Egypt and the Royal Family of Britain. Sex was more open and done before all the silliness of people today.

This blog is not to tell parents or anyone how to teach children, but it is to say that children can only learn about their bodies, sexuality, and all the rest in life from parents. School, churches, and society have their place to teach children about academics of life. They are not to replace parenthood. Seeing sex is not pornography. Porn is not reality...sexuality is reality.

It is confusing to me in away that we can see other animals, on educational shows, having sex and not get disturbed, but we freak out completely when it comes to human sexuality. It clear that sex and porn are not the same, so what is the hang up? It could not be religion fully. Morality is not the issue. Through the years of civilization, morality has changed, but we stay firm to our civil liberties. Why do humans go crazy with human sexuality?

The simplest answer is the media. There were more maturity with sex even in ancient times because we did not have easy access to the misconception of sex. The media is not evil, but it sure shows a lot of immaturity than one can count. Now that we have the Internet, it is so easy to get a hold of free porn. If there is a time that we need proper parenthood, it is now.

Love from parents goes far beyond raising their children. It is the ability to present what is important to their children. I have stated in many post: "Who would you rather teach your children, the media or you?" These are your children. Who can do a better job?

Honesty is the key. Being a parent does not take a brain surgeon. To be open with your children will make all the difference to them. What parent does not want their children to have a great sex life when they become adults...even in marriage? If children or teenagers see it on the media, they will get confused.

Sheltering your children too much can do more damage than good when they become adults. if you can prepare them with truth so when they see things that are immoral from outside the home, they will be able to utilize that information and not be confused or tempted. It is completely up to you parents on what you do share and teach, but do it fully and completely without any fear. Children are very, very observant. They will see your body language and listen to how you present sex to them.

Parents, please know this if not anything else: you can never keep your children from what is being presented on the media (tv, movies, Internet, etc.). The FLOT (Forward Line of Troops) Line is in the home against immorality and any dangers they will run up against in their lives as children and adults. It is so important that you raise and teach your children right.

New York City Will Mandate Sex Education

2011-08-10T11:31:00.001-04:00

Image via WikipediaEver wonder why so many children/teenagers are so confused with the human body and sex itself? That is simple to answer, but most parents will not like my answer.

It is the parents that are responsible for teaching their own children, in the home, about sex! There are far too many STDs (Sexual Transmitted Diseases) and unprepared pregnancies in most teenagers' life today. Why do you think man lives longer? They are to be raised in the home by proper parenthood. Sex education is just one of many responsibilities that parents have for their own children.

Schools should not be teaching this to children, but due to the lack of responsibilities in the home, they have to do so for the sake of the future of humanity. What is so scary about the human naked body in the first place? The human body is much more than the genitalia, but it is the most important aspect of learning about our bodies and how we should take care of it. Knowledge is power, not ignorance. That is why it is so important for parents to teach their own children about the human body.

How can a complete stranger, even a teacher in a public/private school, teach children completely about their own bodies? Which will the children ask questions on what they do learn, their parents or a teacher that cannot fully give them the answers they are needed to know? Either teenagers are going to learn about the human body from their parents or from outside sources, which is 98% of the time incomplete. Ladies and gentlemen, once children learn something in the wrong manner, things become more complex!

Do you want your children to learn about their own bodies from strangers? Believe it or not, teachers are strangers no matter how much education they have. You know or should know your children more than anyone on the planet. In all the means of children learning about sexuality in schools or anywhere outside the home, it is hardly 20% of what they need to know.

That lack of full and complete knowledge, that parents can only provide, teenagers will be more confused than ever. There hormones are at a peek as it is during their teenage years. With poor to no understanding of who they are physically, more confusing will be added. I do not understand it. What is so hard to teach your own children about their bodies?

How is a penis and a vulva so terrifying? It is the lack of knowledge of these important body parts that is causing all the problems with STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and all the turmoil. Sex or anything else in life is not moral or immoral in itself. It is a part of life...no more no less.

For human beings, sex is more than procreation. It is the peek of showing love towards the one that is being loved. It is the ultimate form of expressing love to the one that is very special to the one that is giving pleasure toward. Think of sexual intercourse as the ultimate form of art that cannot be fully explained. It only comes crashing down when teenagers have sex and gets some form of sexual transmitted disease, a female gets pregnant when she is a child herself, and all the other confusing that would take forever to enter in this blog post.

Only the Aramaic Religions makes sex as something dirty and immoral. These religions also makes the human naked body immoral also. This type of propaganda has caused so much confusion, it is no wonder so many hates religion as a whole. Later on people come to realize how arrogant these religion like Christianity has become regarding how we look at our human bodies. SHOCKER folks! The human body, naked or otherwise, is not immoral!!

As human beings, we are given something in our lives that far reaches any living being on this planet, the means to think rationally. We can follow all sorts of thought disciplines. No living creature can out class human beings. Our bodies are important as our minds due to it is attached to us and completes us as human beings.

What is so dirty about a penis or a vulva or any part of the human naked body? Have you ever wonder why we can be attracted to pornography? Sexuality is a form of art, the art of expressing love for another and towards another as we share in that love. The difference in porn and reality is simple, we are not animals to the extent we should have sex with anyone at anytime. The human body is not designed to have sex in such a fashion. That is why STDs are a big issue today.

I ask you, my readers, what is so dirty or immoral regarding the human naked body in both male or female? What do you see that repulses you? Believe it or not, it is the propaganda that is fed to us by misguided religions, lack of proper knowledge, and out right stupidity. True we are not animals in the sense of acting like jerks to the high degree, but what is worse, behaving like animals are being ignorant of who we are in life? Nudity is not a sin folks! Ignorance that knows better is a lot worse!!

What makes pornography so bad is not the naked bodies and sex, but the irrationality of it all. Being naked or having sex is not what is immoral, but the lack of understanding it which can lead teenagers to have their future crashing down on them. If you can see the pictures of the aftermath of teenagers having these diseases. It would make a horror movie appear to be a comedy by comparison.

The unneeded suffering they go through after one or two sexual intercourses. Once they get any STDs, the rest of their lives are completely destroyed. It is too late for parents to teach their children about sex and the results that could happen. The reality of the horrors they will face for the rest of their lives is upon them like a ton of bricks. All this could have been prevented by having their parents raise them properly.

This blog is not to say all disasters regarding sex is totally the fault of the parents, but I will say this: More and more parents are not raising their children properly. If I am wrong then this New York Times article would not have been written. It is not the first time this has been talked about to the mass public. This problem regarding parents not teaching their own children about the human naked body has been going on for generations. The misconception have to do mostly with Aramaic Religions.

They teach that sex is wrong. Sex is a natural part of life. It must be taught right in the home by parents and not schools alone. There is a place for the educational aspect of learning about the human body, but the basics of sexuality should be in the home, PERIOD!

There is nothing dirty or immoral regarding our bodies. If most could see past all the misconceptions that religions and so many organizations that has confused this issue, then one will see the beauty of our own bodies.

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/08/10/nyregion/in-new-york-city-a-new-mandate-on-sex-education.html?_r=1

Is Sex Passé?

2011-07-10T16:12:00.001-04:00

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I strongly believe what the issue about sex has nothing to do with differences but the lack of it. What I mean is what are parents teaching their children about the human body and sexuality?

Ignorance with curiosity leads to disaster. We all are curious creatures. Children more so. Teenagers are more or less children that are starting to learn about their bodies and life itself. Knowledge with curiosity leads to wonderful achievements. Only with the right type of knowledge can we grow in a mature fashion. It allows for us to start new things like social networking online.

There is nothing immoral about the human naked body. If Christianity is right in the Bible by saying after God created us, we are created in the image of God and declared us to be very good, then how can the human naked body be immoral? It is not.

The media and religion are the two most influential aspects of life. This does not make them evil per say, but how they can be distorted. Who we are is much more than our souls. Our body has an important role to play. Knowing about it in every way will make all the difference.

Our bodies is something wonderful and beautiful to see. No other creature looks so magnificent than the human body. We might look very similar to monkeys and apes, but we are not them. We are far more. There is nothing to compare to the human body. The beauty far reaches the stars not only in our galaxy but the universe.

If what I say is true, then why is this article from the New York Times out there for all to read? Reason, parents do not train their own children properly. The worse abuse a child can ever get in life is neglect. Another is children being ignorant of themselves and life. That is why I have this blog out.

This bog is to allow parents to look in the mirror of who they are and what they are not. Teenagers are crying out in this NY Times article. They want to be accepted, but they cannot. They cannot accept who they are for themselves. They look at themselves as the woman did in the 2nd video if not a lot worse.

We were not meant to wear clothes, but we do for many reasons. That makes us different than anything in the animal kingdom. We dress today mostly due to a fashion statement. I am sure that the clothes industry makes more money than the food industry. Anther reason we wear clothes is for protection, and it has nothing to do with the weather.

Yes they are sexual perverts out there. I cannot say if these perverts will disappear if we accept our naked bodies or not, but I do believe that it will curb our sexual hunger.

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/07/10/opinion/sunday/10sex.html

California: Porn King Offers Mortgage Relief

2010-12-31T22:30:00.001-05:00

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This is an interesting article. Where were the loving Christians in helping this lady and her large family?

There is nothing wrong with sex or having sex, but if religion is based on love (and it is based on love), then the one that is called sexual immoral is the one that is helping out an individual in need. This porn king gave the terms. There was no hiding behind it. She declined this offer, but it amazes me how we can judge others and do worse than the ones we are judging.

With all the illegal drugs, STDs, HIV, and Hepatitis C that goes on with pornography, I would not even step into a pornographic studio less alone take part in it. The reason I am writing this blog post is to show how important it is for parents to teach their own children about the human body, about sex, and how to be the best in the world we live in. Life starts in the home. It does not start in schools, churches, or anywhere else.

What is so bad about pornography? There is nothing wrong with having sex. There can be millions of words that tells how bad pornography is to a society. One of them, it is not natural. Animals in the wild do not have sex in such a barbaric manner. I guess there is nothing wrong with creativity in sex, but I do not think pornography is anything that the average person would live by. Spite all the negativity, this porn king went out to help someone.

Now, the parents reading this post have something to think about. Do you want your children to grow up ignorant about the human body and sex? What is so wrong about learning something so beautiful? Having sex is also a very beautiful thing. So what is so wrong about pornography?

The human body is not made to have sex with hundreds. It has been told that one female can be raped by 100 men in one pornographic movie. Parents, do you want your daughter to go through that? Why makes a female want to be part of something like this? To my horror, I have heard one teenager state she left the home to get into prostitution just to feel love.

Everything starts in the home. When children are not taught fully, then the results is what we have today. If you think sex is confusing and out of control now, wait a few more generations from now. It will only get worse until parents teach their own children properly.

Knowledge rules in life. It is ignorance that confuses things. The doctrine of religion does not suppress things. It is when man abuses religion for power that causes freedoms to disappear. There has been so many murders and destruction in the name of religion throughout human history. Should we get rid of religion all together?

That would be very stupid! What lawmakers need to do is enforce the laws for all citizens. Religious leaders have no right to make laws or government the people based on their principles alone. Laws are to serve and protect freedom. They were never designed to take freedoms away from others.

Religion is not a bad thing at all. It answers the one question that had plagued man sense the dawn of time, “Why am I here?” I personally believe this “The ratio of the number of people on the faith of the Earth to the number of faith/religions is 1:1. That means we are all responsible for our own lives. Another human being cannot dictate our lives for us. Parents are to train their children and teach them what they need to know to the fullest.

This article from the New York Times is very small, but it tells a lot more. This blog is more than one post. Since I started this blog, I have written a great many post saying about the same thing in so many different ways, parents need to teach their own children about the human body.

I cannot tell parents how to teach their own children. They are not mine to teach. Time and time again, I see children becoming teenagers that know absolutely nothing about the human naked body of their own gender or the opposite sex. What is so wrong with the naked body anyhow? It is a part of being a human being. So is having sex.

If parents did their jobs right in the first place, articles like this one would not have to be written. It all starts in the home.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/12/31/us/31brfs-PORNKINGOFFE_BRF.html?_r=1

Childbirth: Breast-Feeding Ends by 6 Months for Many

2010-09-28T13:02:00.001-04:00

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This is one of the many reasons I started this blog, about 2005. The reasons for mothers not breastfeeding their newborns as they should is the end results of how they are taught about their own bodies.

Why do so many in the United States of America fear the natural human body? Could it be due to miss information of religion? I cannot say if religion as a whole is the cause, but it could easily be the symptom. In a good many third-world or periphery countries, the Roman Catholic Church has done a lot of damages. The crude birthrate is very high. In Afghanistan for example has a 38.37 births/1,000 population (2010 est.) (www.cia.gov).

The breastfeeding issue is not only in the United States. Reports all over the globe have similar issues. When the CDC and other health organizations spends their time to give us these statistics, it has a very good foundation of being very serious. All Children are worth the effort of the best heath care they can get. It is up to parents to give their children the proper rearing of how to take care of their own bodies, but they cannot do so if they have a poor health due to the lack of breastfeeding at birth. It all starts in the home.

When children are trained with the lack of proper self esteem of the human naked body, less mothers will breastfeed their own newborn. Love of self comes from within. If their is no understanding of the light from from within, then how can these mothers shine that light with their babies at all stages of developments? Learning about life is a step by step process that continues on and on with no end. There is no slacking off in the wonders of parenthood.

This does not mean that being a parent means it is a serious struggle. It is simply a daily challenge for all that are involved. Children has to do their part, but they cannot do it alone. In so many periphery counties, the children ends up living on the streets due to their parents and other adult members die to some disease. We do not have it that bad in the USA, but when children are left to basically raise themselves in a home, what is the difference?

When complication is built on another, the solution becomes tougher to solve. Proper health care starts with breastfeeding newborns fully.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/09/28/health/research/28childbirth.html

YouTube - Whores, Prostitutes, Hookers & Pimps, Facts about the Sex Trade 1, Hot Facts Girl Kashmir

2010-01-08T11:52:00.001-05:00

In this blog, I have embed a number of videos, that will be changed often, on plain simple nudity or the nudist lifestyle. I want my readers to get the truth on the reality of what is natural and normal regarding the human naked body. In this posting, there is a contrast.

This is not natural form of sex. It has nothing to do on why I have created this blog in the first place. The human body is the most beautiful, wonderful, completed, entity on the face of the Earth. Most Western countries reveal the human naked body as dirty, sinful and right out ugly. This is far from the reality spectrum.

What makes prostitution so unnatural is that it completely distorts the purpose of sex. As I have stated many times, sex is love, and love is sex. The purpose for sex in the animal kingdom is procreation of their species. Humans can have children also, but sex is much more than having children.

The sole purpose of this blog is to enlighten parents to teach their own children about their bodies. Teaching about the opposite sex is needed as well. I cannot state this enough, “Knowledge is power.” If parents wants their children to grow up with a proper and healthy sex life, then they will not learn it in schools, the media, churches, or anywhere else. The home is where every thing starts.

To prove that sex is love, I have heard on a television program that a young girl went into prostitution for love that she did not get from the home. That does not mean have sex with your children, but love can branch out on all planes of existence. When children are taught about their bodies by mom/dad, than these children will realize how important they are in life. That is one form of love in the home. Sexual abuse is not love.

Prostitution and other unnatural sex acts in life is a sign of a broken system, usually in the home where all understandings stars. Instead the Western world fears teaching the natural order of life. They might scream “live green” without knowing why they are doing it themselves. Saving energy is not just living green, but common sense. It is common sense for parents to raise their own children properly, but sad to say, most do not.

The human naked body is the most natural aspect of life for a human being. Having sex due to peer pressure is not. That is out right rape. Making love in a sexual manner is very natural and normal, but what it is being shown in the media is not right. Only the right information in the home by the parents can allow children to sort out for themselves what is right or wrong for them. STDs is a common term, but having sex does not lead to STDs, nor will having sex kill teenagers.

Nudity is not Immoral

2009-12-26T22:54:00.001-05:00

I have stated this in this blog that being naked is not immoral. Animals are naked. Our pets are naked. Mammals might have fur on them, but not always. Fur or not, they are naked. We even have seen educational shows of animals having sex.

I wonderful if we can see humans having sex with out pornography? All we see in the Western world is pornography. We have child abuse going wild. Sex in itself is not abusive, immoral, or wrong. Being naked is not either.

What is the difference in the Eastern world and the Western world? The Western world is so immature about nudity. We fear it like death itself. This does means that the rest of the world go naked all over the place. Maturity causes calm and common sense in life.

Another issue that the Western world has is religions controls far too much. In fact religion done right does not control, but gives the right information about life in a metaphorical means. Mindfulness is how religion is suppose to be administered. What is mindfulness? Simply it means aware of one’s true self. This post or blog is not about religion, but how parents can teach their own children about the human body.

If children are the future of life, then by teaching them about what is theirs, the naked body, then they can help change the Western World on the troublesome of human nudity and sex. This will not be over night, nor should it. Like anything in life, it takes time. It took many of years for the Western World to be in the state of confusion and fear for the human naked body and its wonderful function, sex.

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When parents can give their own children the right information about the human naked body, then only proper results can come out of it. If they can see that being naked is not something to hide like a something evil, then they can learn to be responsible for their sexuality. If the wrong information is being taught in the home, or nothing is being taught, then they will get what we have now in the United States of America, complete and total chaos.

What saddens me is that a nation that is a light beacon of the whole world can be so closed minded towards something so natural as human nakedness and sexuality. Due to their fears, they promote pornography of all kinds. They scream for normality, but they do not do anything about it.

The more people look at pornography the more they are crying for the reality of why they are, sexual beings. When nudity is administered in the home, it does not bring out any immorality, but understanding and knowledge.

Actually there is no immorality in sex. All life have sex in one way or the other. What about sexual transmitted diseases? First of all, that is not the means of immorality. The word moral is the concept of right and wrong. There is nothing wrong with sex or having sex. There is nothing wrong by being naked.

I have said that sex is love and love is sex. With all the animals of Earth, they have sex to procreate their species. Humans can do the same thing, but they can stop child birth during sex. Another words sex has another purpose for humans, pleasure. There is nothing wrong with feeling good, but as with anything their is a great responsibility. When parents teach their own children about the human body fully and completely, then can children have the abilities to be responsible for their bodies.

Ignorance does not bring out responsibilities. Knowledge is power. Only the right knowledge can anyone fulfill their own lives in anything. Life itself is done by understanding all things. When humans stop having sex, it will not stop the spread of STDS. It is not the sex that started these diseases. It was fear and ignorance.

RAND | Does Watching Sex on Television Influence Teens' Sexual Activity?

2009-11-09T13:27:00.001-05:00

It very much disturbs me that there are laws against showing sex on television in the United States of America, but nothing is being enforced as it should.

Children/Teenagers are suffering due to it. Where is the compassion from parents? This is their job after all. School, Churches, etc. are not the ones that are responsible for teaching children about the human body and sexuality.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_body

What is so bad about the human body anyhow? Should we go naked outright to show that the human body is a wonderful and beautiful thing in all creation?

The sight of the human naked body has never led to have uncontrollable sexual activities. How we control our sexual drives has to do what we think. In all the rape cases you hear on the news not once was the female naked before she was raped.

Having sex is not a sin in itself, but how we govern that responsibility. Right now far too many teenagers are getting some kind of STDs/STIs, getting pregnant, or just loosing the intimacy of the purpose of having sex to begin with.

That is RIGHT! Sex is a form of intimacy. Another words sex is a very important expression of love. With all the type of sex on television, including Stargate Universe, sex is not presented in an the manner is should be done.

How should sex be presented on the media? To my most honest opinion, it should not be shown at all. The biggest reason is that sex is a private intimate loving activity that two people share in the most romantic way possible. Another words, sex is the most romantic means of expressing love. The media can never show this in the right way.

For the most part the human body is about the same. Both male and female both have arms legs, a head, buttocks, etc. The minor differences are very profound.

A male has a penis, and a female has a vulva. There is nothing dirty or evil about these important parts of the human body. Once one gets to learn and know these parts, they are a very wonderful parts of the human body. In all the animals on Earth, there is nothing like the human reproductive system.

Most animals have sex for the survival of their species. Humans do reproduce in such a manner, but since we can rationalize, we can go far beyond simplicity. Humans can have sex without reproducing.

Another media destruction: They make it sound that everyone must have a so called “perfect 10” body, whatever the hell that means. Nothing in life on any reality plane is perfect. Never has and never will!

There is no shame in being naked. Where is it written in any religious text that says being naked is a sin? You will not find it anywhere. Just the same, religious leaders will preach with all sorts of condemnations on the evil of nakedness and sex.

As with any walk of life, there is a time and place to do things. Like I have stated, sexual love (Greek: Eros) is a private thing. It should not be presented in public. Most might think that if a lady were walking or jogging in a park naked from head to toe, she would be raped.

There is no case mentioned that a female was raped due to she was naked, wore a skimpy outfit, etc. Rape has nothing to do with sex in itself. It has to do with power over the female. That of course is a whole different subject to what I am writing in this blog.

The sole purpose of this blog as a whole is to get parents to do their full and complete responsibilities in teaching their own children about the human body. How they go about doing it is none of my business.

I have shown examples that they can use in any way they see fit. There are many factors why one way can never work. Each and every children are different. How they perceive and learn things in life proves that.

There is one thing I have learned most if not all children are naturally born nudist. They can go naked throughout the house with out the care in the world. In the privacy in the home, why not go naked.

Parents can either teach their children that they should not go naked and explain the responsibilities of going naked in public life, or they can teach their children that it is natural to be naked in the home while at the same time teach them through their lives that there are responsibilities of their own bodies.

The right thing done in the right way will lead the right results no matter what it may be. When a parent tells a child that they should not go naked in the house without detail reasons, the child will get confused and think their bodies are something bad.

I have watched a video (I believe it was in a class) of a young girl talking about she had three holes in the lower half of her body. She was revering to the anus, where she urinates, and her vagina.

The family was very quiet and changed the subject very quickly. What do you think this child thought about her body afterwards?

Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, everything in life starts in the home. With the old computer terminology": GIGO (Garbage In/Garbage Out) it is no wonder we have confusion on all levels regarding sex and the human naked body.

RAND | Does Watching Sex on Television Influence Teens' Sexual Activity?

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Stargate Universe: Home

2009-11-07T19:20:00.001-05:00

By any means do I ever want to be ugly towards anyone, but sad to say after I watched the episode of Stargate Universe, I was not all that happy with a scene of it.

This scene starts about 27:00 from the beginning of the program. Watch it for about one minute, and you will see what I am talking about.

I have nothing against romance and sex. They are both a natural part of life, but it has no place in this episode nor in any part of the media. Sex, love, romance is a private thing of life. It should not be shown on the Syfy channel.

That is why I have this blog online. Parents needs to be apart of their children's lives more than ever. They need to teach about the human body fully and openly.

Stargate television shows are designed with family in mind. This scene of this episode destroyed that relationship. It has no place in this episode, nor the storyline of the Stargate franchise. This is a sad moment in Hollywood, but not unexpected.

One can show romance and even sexual interludes without crossing the line of where it should not go.

Since I am making this statement, I will put my story on the block as it were: My new story is a crossover of Star Wars, Stargate SG1, and Dinotopia, “The Earthly Jedi Knights” has started with a romantic scene without crossing the line.Here is the excerpt of this story with this romantic interlude in question:

Brandon woke up finally from his massage.

When he open his eyes he saw his wife laying naked on her stomach beside him.

Nomi smiled, “Hi love”

Brandon smiled, “Hi there. That was one great massage I had.”

Nomi replied, “I saw you sleeping and thought of undressing and laying beside you.”

Brandon smiled, “I like your thinking.”

Nomi than came closer to him, and put her arms around him. They started to kiss, which lead to a night of romantic interludes.

After their little love making, Nomi asked while having her arms around her husband, “How are you liking the royal life?”

Because of the scene in Stargate Universe, I will surely add more romantic scenes. I want to show that you can have love and sex without crossing the line.

I have seen pictures of teenagers having all sorts of STDs that would make the scariest horror movie win best comedy. Love and sex are the most natural and wonderful things in life, but as Spiderman said, “With great power takes great responsibility.”

Stargate Universe has lost their honor and dignity by this nearly one minute scene. I had no choice but to write about this in this blog.

A lot of people can write http://www.syfy.com, but what go would it really do in the long run regarding your own children?

It might look that I am over reacting just on this one scene while there are all sorts of pornography out there that would make this look as if it should be shown in a Sunday school classroom. To be honest, I would not show either one in any classroom.

This show is a big disappointment to all science fiction shows and the Stargate franchise. A very shameful thing indeed.

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2009-09-16T21:00:00.001-04:00

I for one would not have sex with just any female I meet. I would not even promote it. Love regarding sex should be shared with only that special person. That is what sex was meant for, love. We cannot love everyone in such a manner as this.

Putting religion aside, sex should have restraints. One can say wild animals have sex all the time. The problem is that human being are not wild animals. Humans are animals biologically, but we have something that makes us very different. We can think and reason things out.

We also live longer than the average '”wild animal.” Does this mean that humans have surpassed sex all together. HELL NO!! Us humans do have sex, and it has more to do with reproduction. We can have more sex in our lives IF PARENTS does their jobs right in the home.

Why are parents not teaching their children properly in this manner? Wonder that myself. I have written many post in this blog on this, but I have not yet come up with the answers to this question. I have heard the old excuse from parents, “I do not know how to teach my children about the human body.” If I do not know something, I learn about it.

What is so hard about the human body? Could it be that the ignorance of the human body had caused a fold of ignorance that is causing out right erroneous fears? It is important to know the human body. It is important to examine one’s body:

These two videos show the wonders of the human body. It also shows that how important to know your own body. This is natural and proper. What we usually see on the media is usually not natural. Pornography even more so.

What is natural about sex, and what makes pornography not. When a man loves a woman, he will show respect. Love and respect actually are one and the same thing. In porn, women are not treated as a human being. The media is constantly pushing the envelope to get close to porn just to get ratings. From that more money is being made.

As with the reason why politicians do not do right is due to lobbyists. The more these business pays politicians, the less happens in government. What parents regarding proper teaching of the human body, they need to counteract what is being shown in the media. If the media is going to show nudity in an unnatural way, than parents need to show natural nudity in the home.

The text of this photo states, “The home is the foundation for ordinary nakedness. Strong adult leadership is required to foster household nudity.” Adult leadership is the meaning of PARENTHOOD. If children can raise themselves, than we would not have issues regarding sex, STDs, STIs, unwanted pregnancies, and all the rest. Only the right teaching in the home can fulfill all children needs to grow up, and learn about their own bodies as well as the bodies of the opposite sex.

It is important to teach children about abstinence, but there is a lot more they need to know before they can rightfully wait for the right moment to make love to that special person.

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Diary of a Nudist: "Talk to a Therapist"

2009-09-15T18:51:00.001-04:00

If Americans are going to fear the natural human naked body, then a therapist may be needed. What is so wrong about the human naked body? What we see on the movies, television shows, and pornography are not natural. If nudity is what is right and proper, why do so many in the United States of America are so mixed up?

That answer is easy and hard. The easy side is right in front of our faces.

“Fear leads to anger, anger leads to suffering” –Yoda

What causes fear? That can be just about anything. In this case I see a lot of ignorance or right/proper teaching. Who is teaching children about the human body? The media? What about pornography? School are not doing it. Telling teenagers if they have sex they will die is NOT proper teaching.

Sex does not cause death. Sexual Transmitted Diseases (STIs) can cause death, but not always. Sex can result to a new life. It is the lack of proper education that leads to the wrong path regarding sex or anything else in life. When a child is taught right with the right information, that child will not go wild in sex, or get STIs.

Now what is the right way to teach, and what is the right information? That cannot be answered by me. There are countless ways of achieving both the right way. I have in this blog stated having nudity in the home. Having children and teenagers seeing the human naked body in a natural form could lead to the right questions to be asked by them.

There is nothing wrong with sex either. All living being on Earth have sex. There are no morality with them. How can morality be an issue with nudity or sex. What is so wrong for a person walking naked in public.

How can they shoplift if they have no pockets? If we can see animals having sex on an educational program, what is so bad in seeing two humans having sex? When we break down the complexity and erroneous propaganda from nudity and sex, we can see that there is nothing wrong with either one.

Another issue with proper teachings of the human naked body and sex is orthodox religion. Clergy throughout history has taught that these two important natural life functions are dirty and sinful with fire and brimstone lectures. Nothing can be far from the truth. How can something so life giving be wrong? If all life on Earth has sex, how can it be wrong. Humans are the only creatures alive that wear clothes. Why?

Nudity has been used in art for years throughout history. There is nothing more beautiful nor breath taking then the human naked body. Instead of running from it like craving cowards, we need to embrace it. If children are going to learn to take care of their own bodies fully and have the best sex life when they become adults, than they have to embrace it like breathing air.

I for one am opened to the human body. I rather see a person naked than for them to hide behind their clothes in ignorance. Why do us humans wear clothes? How much protection do we really need? Our environment is not brutal in a civilized world as in the wild.

Wearing clothes does not make a city civilized. Neither does going naked in public. We are not what we wear. What makes us unique in life is based on what we think. Most humans today would not last any length of time in the wild, and it has nothing to do with nudity or sex.

What it has to do with is how we think. When teenagers can think right about there own bodies, then they will know what to do. They will not turn out perfect. No one is perfect. No one can be perfect.

When children are taught right in the home, there would be no reason for therapist. Want to save your money? Train your own children the right way. When they become adults, they will show how good of a job you did.

Diary of a Nudist: "Talk to a Therapist"

YouTube - Ignorance Meets Knowledge (extended breastfeeding) ~ Viva TuniTech.net ~

2009-08-05T00:43:00.001-04:00

Would it be bad for a women to go topless in public? Males do it all the time. We see men topless on television, movies, and pictures. Woman breast are bigger than males, but not always. Men cannot breastfeed a child. Only mothers can do this. This is a natural thing of life.

Breastfeeding is what mothers are meant to do. That is their natural function in life. We in the United States of America talk about saving the planet, but are we really acting naturally? If one is to live with nature, one must be fully human. Breastfeeding is the most human thing a mother can do for her baby.

Even with the medical professionals come out and say that breastfeeding the most important function for a mother, their are dogma religious groups that will preach the evils of breastfeeding. How can nature be evil? As you have seen repeated several times in the video above, mothers should be free to breastfeed up to 8 years of age if not longer. Now if mothers forced their children to breastfeed when they do not want to do so, that would be a different story. That does not happen.

Spite the health benefits of breastfeeding for both the mother and child, there is a bond that will always be there between the mother and child due to breastfeeding. Love is the absolute powerful thing in life. There is nothing that can replace love in a child’s life. There is nothing more loving than a mother breastfeeding her child. Who can love a child more?

The issues regarding breastfeeding is that most thinks it is linked to sex. If a woman was breastfeeding her husband in public, I would say that would be a sexual immoral act. Children has no understanding of sex. When breastfeeding a child over the age of 2 years, they say it is sex abuse. Wild animals do not breastfeed that long. First of all, we are not wild animals. We are humans. We live much longer than most wild animals do.

Humans today can live past 100 years old. Even the domestic dog lives up to about 14 years. We can live over 86 years longer than a domestic dog. The physical body of a human is very complex. The human body matures at different ages. Everything about humans takes much longer to develop than any other animal on Earth.

Eight years of breastfeeding is hardly a grain of sand in the full years of a human life. That is less than 10% of the human life span. Believe it or not that less than 10% can be a great deal when the first eight years of a child’s life is all about love. It seems that society does not care to love a child at that magnitude.

Many say breastfeeding is all about sex. What sex have to do with it? How can it be sexual? Unless the mother is sexual fondling her child, there is no sexual activities going on with breastfeeding. Breastfeeding does not equal incest. We see people of all ages eating in public. That is what breastfeeding is all about. How can watching a mother breastfeeding her baby be disgusting?

It really amazes me that we can shun the natural order of life and nature while at the same paragraph grab pornography. Sex is a natural thing in life. All animals have sex. Pornography is not natural. Mother’s that are breastfeeding does not have a camera crew filming a new pornographic movie.

So everyone get a life. Wake up, and start living reality. If the Christian Doctrine is all about love, than why are so many Christians going out of their way to stop breastfeeding? It does not make any good sense.

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Does Sex Addiction Exist? (page 1)

2009-08-02T20:24:00.001-04:00

Personally I do not believe that one can truly be addicted to anything. Being chemically addicted to something is a whole different thing. Do we know what is in cigarettes? Smoking is an addiction. Can sex be an addiction?

With so much religious dos and don’ts with sex, no wonder so many are confused with sex. What is going on with people on sex. What is the difference in loving sex and sexual addiction. Believe it or not, there is a difference. What are people really craving when they want so much sex? I have said before, if one watch what they are walking around, they will find the true answers to what they seek. We walk around the bushes with sex and sex education that we end up confusing ourselves more and more.

When children are abused in every way, they are traumatized. When children are sexual abused and grow up to be adults, they crave something that they did not get as children. That crave is NOT sex. They got that all during their childhood. They crave love or intimacy.

Due to our fears of sex, we end up accusing children that have been sexually abused as whores. I believe that when you see people going for something else to stimulate them, other than reality as a whole, they are screaming for help. They unintentionally us these so called addictions like sex, to tell everyone around them they are suffering over something more profound. We might need to look not at the addiction, but read between the lines of what these individuals are telling us. Actions and pictures can speak volumes if only we pay attention to what we see and hear.

Another problem we all face is the religious side of sex. What most clergy will teach that sex is bad, sinful, and right out evil. How did those clergy members come to existence? Each and every human being came into existence due to the result of our parents making love/having sex. That goes with every species on Earth.

In stead of teaching sex is a sin, we need to properly teach our children about the human body and the responsibilities of it, including sex. Making love to the one we truly love in life is a wonderful thing. Our bodies and our soul cannot love everyone in such a manner. That is what makes pornography so unnatural.

How I see it, sex is not a sin, nor is it addictive. Like believing in Voodoo, we can believe in something so strongly that we end up being slaves to that belief. Can that be an addiction? Yes it can, but that does not make sex addictive. As in the first video, we heard that “sex’ is not considered an addiction by psychiatry.

What I believe is the real issue facing sex is religion. It has gotten us so confused with sex and the human naked body. Teenagers are starting to believe that they are committing a giant sin when their bodies start to become sexual active (puberty). Their own parents gives them the silent treatment. That alone is traumatic enough. When school teaches it, they teach that having sex can kill them due to STDs.

The only education they get on sex is from the media. What children needs is love and intimacy. When parents goes out of their way to teach their own children about they human naked body, then they are showing love and intimacy to their children. Believe it or not, children as well as adults are constantly learning. Either they learn from proper information or they pick up garbage.

What I believe leads to what is called, “sex addiction” is the misinformation or the lack of it from both parents and the educational system. Only dogma religion and ignorance causes complete mayhem. Religion needs to mind its own business. Parents and schools needs to start doing their jobs right. We might as well say that anyone that is not religious are evil. Would that end the sex issues? NO!!

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Tracy Jarrett: When "Abstinence" Is Overrated

2009-08-02T16:10:00.001-04:00

Why are the pregnancy rate so high? “With every action there is an opposite and equal reaction.” There is always a cause and effect to any thing done in life. The issues are not the lack of sex, but the lack of proper and complete knowledge of sex.

The right thing done in a wrong way is wrong. A wrong thing done in a right way is wrong. A wrong thing done in a wrong way is wrong. To teach children about the human body a right thing must be done in a right way to have the right results. What is the right way of teaching the human body to children? The simplest answer is completely without any fears or jeers.

Children are a lot smarter than you may think. When they are taught nothing, they will come up with the conclusion that their bodies are dirty and bad. How can any part of the body be bad? What is the difference between a hand and a vulva, or any other part of the body? If children must learn to take care of their entire body, then ignorance will not do the job.

When one knows about their sex drives, they can control it better verses ignorance. Where does ignorance ever helps anyone or anything? Only knowledge is power. With that power, the pregnancy rate will start to drop. Spite the pregnancy rate, there is more to why it is so important to teach the human body properly. All of us are human beings, and we have intelligent like no other animal or Earth.

Us humans learn by education than my instincts. Nothing is given to human beings like the rest of the living creatures on Earth. We have to be trained as children in order to be the adults in the right and proper manner. Other than the high pregnancy rate, STDs, the word abstinence means very little in the 21st Century. Only a full education on the human body can do it.

Most people do not even know the names of their own gentiles less alone the functions. There is a lot to learn about the human body. When one learns about the human body, they will not start becoming sexual out of control. That is what is going on right now. It is ignorance that causes things to be out of control.

Why do human beings have sex? Wild animals on Earth have sex to populate their species. Humans do populate that way, but there is more to humans having sex. That other reason is love. We are the only beings on Earth that can love at the magnitude we can love another. Sex is the art of love making. It is that simple.

There are many ways for humans to have sex/make love. “With great power, there is great responsibility.” That is where proper and complete teaching of the human body comes into play. There is nothing so wonderful in life than making love with another. Does this means that pornography is love? NO!!

Prostitution is not love either, but there is more of that going on than proper sex education in the homes and schools. The more parents and schools do not do their jobs right regarding sex, pornography will continue to grow. Pregnancy rate will continue to grow also. What is so bad about unwanted pregnancy is unwanted children. As children starts to grow up, they will learn that no one wants them in a society.

Only less and less love is being taught. In stead of children learning that sex is love, they will learn that sex is for profit only. Since sex does feel good, that could mean that there would be more prostitution, and women in pornography than before. No matter how one may look at it, there is no good thing from ignorance of the human body.

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British Try Sex-Ed "Orgasm a Day" Campaign : LimeLife

2009-07-16T20:02:00.001-04:00

Why is sex so much of an issue? Most if not all European countries are opened to the human body. How I see it, the problem comes from the misconceptions of orthodox religion. Instead of the clergy continuing down the same path about sex, they need to teach about the human body and sexuality to show that nudity, sex, and all the rest are not sinful when the right knowledge is applied.

There is nothing to be afraid with our bodies. We all have a natural and moral sex drive. When teenagers sex drive are starting to be active, they need to be taught what it is, and not what it is not. What I mean is, the human body is not a disease. It is a natural thing of life.

What is so wrong with orgasms? There are just as natural as breathing. What would you rather have your teenagers do: have sexual intercourse with a stranger at a party, or have them at home masturbating? There are medical evidence to show good reasons to masturbate:

The Masturbate Guide: The Medical Viewpoint
Medical Benefits of Masturbation
Masturbation Information on MedicineNet.com
From the Medical News Vault: Male Masturbation 'Cuts Cancer Risk'
What is masturbation? Is it harmful?- with video

One can find many more medical web links on the medical reasons that masturbation is healthy. The purpose of this blog posting is to get parents to be more open with their children about the human body. The human body is not ugly, dirty, or immoral. Having sex is not that way either. The thing is to be responsible for one’s action. Children nor teenagers cannot learn about responsibilities on their own.

All sorts of animals masturbate, have sex, and all the rest. Human being are animals, but through the right knowledge we can behave like human beings. Children having the correct education about their bodies and the bodies of the opposite sex/gender is a good thing. Knowledge is power.

It is amazing to me that there are more acceptance of all sorts of pornography, and less acceptance of the natural understanding of the human body and sexuality. Children should know and experience their own bodies with the right and proper knowledge. When children learn that touching or looking at their own bodies is bad, they will get the wrong ideas when they become adults. That is why pornography is more accepting. Only misguided information can cause bad results.

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How to Protect Yourself from Internet Porn Bots: Hacker Porn Site Sued by Facebook

2009-07-07T22:11:00.001-04:00

This article is why i wanted to have this bog. The human naked body is not pornographic. There are far too many child molesters out there. There is no excuse for them. I wonder if children would know what to do if parents taught their own children about the human body in a proper manner?

I know that even with the best parents, does not make things automatically better or perfect. There is no such thing in life. Perfection is only in Hollywood, if it is then. What I do know is that knowledge is power. The more children can learn in the home the better. Look at what is going on when parents do not do their jobs right.

Spite all the literalism in all walks of life, there is nothing wrong with nudity and sex. They are the most natural part of life. Pornography is not natural or normal. Pornography is concerned about money. They will have the ladies do anything to get more money. The sex part starts to be natural to a point. I cannot rightfully say when it crosses from normal to right out disgusting. To me porn is disgusting when it starts.

When women or treated like dogs or lower, I cannot rightfully say that is normal sex. I cannot understand how anyone could want to watch that rot. When a male can truly make love to a woman, then he will treat her more than a equal, but possibly a Goddess. There is a difference in making love verses right out rape. Porn is rape, if they are paid $1,000 or whatever amount women gets paid.

By this article, this is why I have stated so many times, the Internet is not a place for children. No one has the right to push anything on anyone, pornography or whatever. Unfortunately, this will not be the end of porn. No matter what website you may go to, there will be some kind of pornography advertisement. Child safety software does not work.

If parents teach their children about the human body in the right way, whatever way that may be, then when children see the rot online and offline, they can dismiss it as trash. See the human naked body in its natural form is not pornographic, nor will lead anyone to sex orgies. I have said this countless times, hospitals see the naked body all the time in both sex, age, shapes, and forms. Have you been in a hospital that had sex orgies? I say not.

How can any part of the body be bad, ugly, or immoral? How can a penis be worse than any other part of the body? What about a vulva, anus, or other parts that are called so many times as private or even dirty parts of the body? What are so dirty about these parts of the body? How are they dirty or immoral?

How can normal, non pornographic, sex be bad? Sexual intercourse was not designed for having children. Today in the 21st Century, there are many ways to keep women from getting pregnant. Even when women gets their tubes tied, sexual intercourse can still be done. Sexual intercourse is for a man and a woman to make love. Even a male and a male; female and a female, can make love to each other.

We either see how dirty nudity and sex is by how the media presents it, or we see how evil the same sex making love can be. Believe it or not, sex is not dirty, nor a female making love to a female, or a male making love to a male is evil. If one really reads any religious text, they cannot find anywhere that says that there is anything against same sex making love to each other. So why do so many literal dogma religious people treat homosexuals less than a human being? They can look like any other human being, and think like any other human being.

When people are against sex, they love less than ones that see sex and nudity as normal aspect of life. Love is the key to live. Being naked is a part of life. Having sex is the key to life. When these three important aspect of life is brought together, than a wonderful result can come from it.

This does not mean orgies are being suggested. However adults want to do anything is their business. What it does mean that sexual intercourse and other sexual activities are for adults ONLY. When children are not taught right in the home by their parents, then they get curious about sex. Only ignorance brings out curiosity.

When curiosity and sex are mixed, you get what is going on with the confusion with sex today. Knowledge, and the right knowledge can bring out order, even with sex. Believe it or not, sex is not uncontrollable as so many wants us to think. As with anything in life, we control our own lives. Sex is a part of life like anything else.

I believe if parents can do their jobs in the home, pornography would not have the power it has over us today. Being naked is a natural part of life, and sex is a natural part of life. When children of today learns this to be true, it will be when we can control all the confusion that we have today.

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Sending of Explicit Photos Can Land Teens in Legal Fix

2009-05-07T15:02:00.007-04:00

Ladies and gentlemen, please let me say this about teens "sexting." Parents needs to be more responsible for their children. This is the end result of very bad parenting in the homes.

No parent(s) cannot be perfect, nor are they qualified to do so. Ever wondered why bullying is growing big time? Wonder why sex is going out of hand with teenagers. Children and teenagers are finding something they are not getting from their parents, love. You heard me correctly. There is not enough love from parents in the home. Children need to be loved unconditionally.

Parents I ask you to talk to your children about the human body. Learning about what is given to them is more than a textbook discussion. This is their biological life. They have the right to learn all they can about their precious bodies. Parents are the only rightful people to teach this subject to their children. We have seen that schools have failed countless times on this subject.

What is so scary about the human naked body? The penis and the vulva are not dirty parts of the human body. They are the most important part of the human body. Instead of covering them up, we should allow these part to be a wonder of life. These parts of the body should be respected. The only way that children can rightfully learn to respect their entire body is by learning about all parts in the proper and responsible fashion.

Only ignorance causes confusion. Ignorance causes fear. Fear causes hate. Hate causes suffering. When parents spend the time to talk to their children about the human body, than the fear of nudity and sex is completely removed. Knowledge removes ignorance. By teaching children about both genders, they can understand and fully respect the other gender. There is no irrational curiosity with the human body as teenagers start to develop sexually when parents do the right thing. They would have all the knowledge they will need before they become teenagers.

The job of the parent(s) is not over. As teenagers start to develop sexually, they will be needing you more than ever. Boys needs to know about the female body as much as they need to know about theirs. Ever wonder if men will ever understand women? If parents teach their sons all about the female body, then they would know all about women.

Sex is not a sin. Being naked is not a sin. Having your children seeing you naked is not a sin, nor a crime. I believe that nakedness in the home, done in the responsible manner, is well needed. If you think seeing some one naked will cause uncontrollable sexual activities, then think again. If that is the case, hospitals would have sex orgies all the time. Being naked does not cause any form of immorality.

If children does not see normal responsible nudity in the home, then they will see it on the media. This might be a shocker, but what they show on the media regarding nudity and sex is not moral. The media today does not show any responsibilities at all. Parents, what would you rather your children see naked first, you or the crap that they will see in all forms of the media. Unless you keep your children in a complete isolated room, they will see the misgivings of life.

Children needs love, guidance, and parental supervision. This does not stifle them. Simply take a moment and take a good look at your children. They are asking for your love and parental support. They might not say it with words, but as from this article, they are begging their parents to do the right thing for them.

Children are not wanting perfect parents, but they are wanting their parents to raise them properly. Children cannot raise themselves. Human beings need a special type of care in order to become proper adults in life. Giving your children a book to read on the subject of sex is not the solution on it own. There is a time to read a book on whatever, and there is time that parents much interact with their children.

The most wonderful experience in life is a mother breastfeeding her babies. There is nothing more loving than that. Before a mother can rightfully do that, she must be taught how to take care of her body, and not just the breasts. How many women could have save their breasts if they caught the cancer in their breast in an early stage? Touching oneself is not sinful or immoral. It is our bodies. We should be allowed to touch any part of out bodies.

Knowing every aspect of our bodies can and has prevented many disease from getting worse. The ones that fully knows their bodies can catch the disease at an early stage because they will know how to see, feel, and listen to the early warning signs. There is nothing immoral or sinful about anything regarding our human naked bodies.

Did you know that in ancient times males and females went naked in public. These societies have lasted for thousands of years. The United States of America has been around over 200 years. Look at our degeneracy. We have failing parents, the economy is falling and falling at a 90 degree angle, etc. We are doing the opposite of history. We have learned nothing from history. Not one damn thing.

The result of children sending pictures of themselves naked to strangers is not a sign of progress in a nation. Why would anyone do that? There is no big deal in seeing a naked body in the first place. These children are crying out. Can you hear what they are saying? They are asking for their parents to be responsible parents.

Are Your Teens Aware Of The Dangers Of “Sexting”?

2009-03-29T12:23:00.001-04:00

When I read this article, what got my attention was not what was being sent by children/teenagers, but what the article did not go over. One may have to read it over and over to finally see it. Here in this case at least, the issue was bullying and not just what kind of photo that was sent.

What really bothered this young girl was not the photo that was for her boy friend, but how everyone treated her at school. It is important that teenagers know what to send to others in any form of communication, especially about the human body. Sex is not a bad thing or talking about sex. but there is a place for everything.

Communication has been around with the cavemen. All this social networking is not a bad thing at all. Humans need to communicate. How many times have we been frustrated with others due to the lack of communication? As with anything we all need to learn the value of what we do share with others. Under the Constitution of the United States of America, we have the right to our own privacy.

Could it be that simple. Parents needs to teach their children about about the value of privacy, while the understanding that children can share anything they need to with them, their parents. Sometimes I think we are too quiet at times. How many times do we go by the quote from the 1967 television show, "The Prisoner," "A still tongue makes a happy life." That is far from the truth!!

We have the right to speak and even speak out when necessary. What children/teenagers need to realize is that what they need to tell and not to tell. It is not the freedom of speech that is important, but the responsibility of that free speech. What this article did not say is the importance for children to talk to their teachers, their parents, and other adults that have made a difference in their lives about how they feel when bullied. Keeping quiet about it will not make the bullies go away.

Parents and teachers also need to communicate with their children. How can children now how to communicate if they do not have others doing the same with them? Remember it takes at least two people to properly communicate. The problem with online social networking is there need to be offline communication as well. Why do you think children/teenagers share things with strangers on things that they should not be doing? They are the first people that listens to them and response back.

The sad thing about life is that parents are far too busy in their own lives that they do not take the time to be part of their children's lives. I cannot say if this is the case of this teenage girl, but the trends of so many families are far too dysfunction. A functional family is a family that communicates and shares things that would not be done or should not be done with others. Even though there are families that do talk and share things, they are not without problems. My point here with this blog posting is to show teenagers they should be talking to their parents and even their school teachers more than they do strangers either online or offline.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Real Name: Brandon Bowers

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Mom shows body to teach sex

2009-03-02T12:07:00.006-05:00

What better way to teach about the human naked body and how it functions than by a visual means. If this mother sexually abused her 14 year old son, that would be a different matter, but she did not. Why do we fear the natural naked body? Does not make any good sense at all.

We are human beings. We have the mentality to understand the complexity of the human body. We are also sexual creatures. By the right knowledge, we can learn to live, function, think, and perform as the highest beings on Earth. Ignorance causes all sorts of sexual transmitted diseases (STD) or sexual transmitted infections (STI). Either with ignorance or proper education, the hormones of a teenager will function. Sometimes teenager can have such a strong sex drive that they can rightfully go out or their mind if only suppression is being taught.

This by no means am I stating we should allow teenagers to go wild in having sex with others. That is the purpose of education, to control any given situation. With the basic knowledge of the human body, teenagers can then know what questions to ask their parents, teacher of the subject on sex education and be able to do deal with their own sexuality. As with any subject, it is not done by a simple lecture and that is it. Question will be asked.

I think the biggest fears we have in the Untied States of America and others countries regarding sex education is due to the fact pornography has been fused with reality. Let me make this ever so clear: No form of pornography is reality. In what I have seen, read, shows on behind the scenes of how pornography runs their business, these ladies are being raped, even it they volunteer to be a part of it. No one in their right minds wants to be sexually abused as all women are in the pornography business. Women nor men are sexual toys for others to use and abuse.

With abstinence sex only education is a form of suppression of the sex drive. It is also a slither of what should be taught to teenagers. Does a history teacher only teach one aspect of history, like the ancient Roman Empire? There are tons more about history, culture, and life itself from all time periods of history. The same is with the human body. A male should know all he needs to know about his own body. Believe it or not, he should know all there is to know about the female body. The same goes for the female.

How many of you ladies wished men would learn about who and what they are. This does not mean that females are not sexual active. In some cases females can have stronger sex drives then men. What makes a great lover in sex is knowledge and understanding on the one that is being loved. Love is expressed by feelings, but it must be controlled by thinking.

Let's go back to what I have said regarding some teenagers can have a very strong sex drive. How can the right knowledge help them manage their strong hormones? First of all ignorance brings out fear. Understanding brings out peace and understanding. Through ignorance a lot of misconceptions have been taught through the decades. The human body is designed to be touched. A lot of doctors have been teaching women and men the important of touching themselves not in the sexual means, but in the regards to detecting the possibility cancer.

What better way to know you own body by the means touching. Not only touching can relieve sexual tension, but it can get a person to know their own bodes. This will allow them to notice something different that could possibly be a beginning of a cancerous growth. If women can catch breast cancer at the 1st and 2nd stages, then they have a much better chance of serious issues with breast cancer.

Touching oneself on the genitalia is not sinful or harmful. All the misconceptions of masturbation has been completely been removed and 100% proven false in the mainstream life. Still even in the 21st Century due to mostly religious control, there are people stating that one can become sex addicted my masturbating oneself. There are no scientific proof of this. The meaning of sexual addiction is a misnomer.

The truth behind this is a result of sexual abuse. The rightful title should be an addiction to being loved. In just about every case of ones that have this so called sexual addiction has been right out sexually abused in the most horrible manner possible when they were a child. That rightfully proves that sex is a form of loving making between two people. The ones that have been sexually abuse still realize this to be true.

Instead of functioning as they should with sex, these individuals are trapped in the aspect that sex is a means of hate and destruction. Instead of loving themselves through sex, they in up punshing themselves instead. That is the result of any child that has been raised without love in the home. It does not have to be sexual abuse to ignite this in them. We are born to be loved. It must be taught to children from day one. The lack of this is a serous disaster for them.

Now back to this mother and child of this article. The mother here is showing and teaching the natural aspect of the human body a very powerful aid, her own naked body. This will not lead to the 14 year old boy wanting to have sexual intercourse with his mother. That is another misconception about the reality of nudity. No one goes seuxal out of control by seeing the naked body, either a male body nor a female body. Hospitals see the naked body of all shapes and sizes. Have you known of any hosspitals having sex orges?

For this mother to do what she has done for her child is no form of incest or sexual abuse on her part. In the result, this 14 year old boy will grow up knowing about the female body and be able to be a great love to a female one day. It is the rightful teaching of this mother that has made all the difference in the future of this 14 year old boy, her son. Seeing any form of natural sex/love making is not damaging either. That is why so many are hooked up with pornography so easily. The beauty of two people making love is wonderful.

Shocking I know, but any pornographic movie is not about love. It has nothing to do with the natural order of sex, love, or the human naked body. Just the same, it seems that most believe that teaching thier own children about the human body will lead to sexual immorality, STDs, STIs, unwanted pregnancy, and all sorts of proplems. It is the ignorance that is causing all these problems. If we all got undressed right down to our birthday suites, walked outside, many will be surpised to find that most are not sexual arroused. If any do, it is very short lived.

Niether does a mother breastfeeding in public causes any sexual immoral actions. A mother breastfeeding her young is a normal and natural act of love. Why do you think woman have larger breast then men? Would it be almost hillairous to see a male breastfeeding a baby. In all the public displays of fussing and causing issues, most people say that breastfeeding in public is sexual immoral, disturbing for children, and all the rest.

If there were people on the streets having all sorts of sexual acts, then that would be one thing, but for the natural aspect of a mother breastfeeding her baby is right out wonderful aspect of love. The baby needs to be fed sure enough, but to see it done in this way is a lot more the logistical support. It is the manisfistation of motherhood and the love she has for her baby. The natural order of life is not pornographic, abusive, or damaging to anyone.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Parents want better sex ed for teens

2009-03-02T00:43:00.010-05:00

I can understand that a number of parents either cannot teach their children about the human body or they refuse to do so. Whomever is the one to rightfully teach children about the human body is not a hard subject to teach, but ignorance of children are rising at alarming rates.

The human body nor sex is a bad or sinful thing in life. It is life itself that has been divided into two forms: male and female. For the most part these two genders are mostly the same except the genitalia and the hormones that makes us male and female. These parts of the body is not dirty, sinful, or immoral, but Americans hide these parts of the body in shame and disgrace.

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There is nothing wrong with religion, but when it interferes with the flow or circle of life, then religion is so dangerous that it becomes something more powerful than a cancer spreading throughout life itself.

The human body is apart of us as our soul. In fact, either one cannot live without the other. It is important to know and learn about each. That way we can take care of our human life to the fullest. Only intelligent and wisdom can bring out wonders for the future.

I recommend that parents should be teaching this subject/with educators in schools. Both parents and schools have a big influence. When no one is teaching children, these children will learn in on their own, either the wrong way or the right way. If children can learn on their own, then there would be no need of parents or schools in the first place. When children lose any aspect of the possibility of being taught something, they cannot get it back. Life never turns back for anyone.

Why do mankind fear the naked body? I cannot see anyone going sexual out of control of seeing a naked body. If that is the case, then hospitals have sex orgies constantly. Hospitals have naked bodies all the time. It is seen by just about all the staff in a given hospital. what is the big deal? This might be a shocker to all of you, but life is not a pornography movie.

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I am talking common sense here. I believe in order, law governing a society for the protection of freedom for all, and all the form of morality. On the other hand, what is moral, sinful, or illegal regarding the human naked body? Spite all that we believe in, there must be a simple standard of conduct that all must follow so children and adults can be protected regarding to sexual crimes. When religion interferes to the point that there is no freedom for any aspect of life, what is more dangerous, the sexual crimes or the religious dogma control?

Faith and religion are two things. Faith is a personal adventure of life beyond the physical aspect of life, called the spiritual life. Religions is man's creation to guide and direct others. This is usually done beyond the core principles of the faith itself. This leads to all sorts of confusion and outright destruction of life itself. There have been more wars in the name of religion than any other reason.

When it comes to the importance of teaching/learning about the human naked body, nothing can rightfully stand in the way without consequences. The STD rates has risen far too high for any child to go through due to the lack of the right knowledge they could have gotten. I have seen pictures of children having all forms of STDs that look so horrible it could make the best horror movie win best comedy by comparison. So, parents, teachers, or educators, what would you rather children to become in their futures? They will have sex in one way or the others.

If I had children of my own, I would rather them to have a wonderful safe and proper sex life, then having them go to parties that I know nothing about, have sex with stranger that they have never met, have my daughter get pregnant at age 14 or any young age, etc. The right knowledge will allow children to wait for their right person, prevent them from having any sexual diseases, and wait till they are adults themselves before having children of their own.

It is true that even with the best parenthood in the home, proper education in the schools, children will still follow the wrong advise and still end up with unwanted pregnancy, and sexual diseases. I say this, "It is always up to the individual to go down the right path or not. If they are taught right at the beginning at the right time in their childhood life, then that will stay with them at all times. People in time have turned around and straighten up their lives due to the fact someone gave them the right teachings before hand.

Spite taught right or not, it is no excuse for bad behavior. The right attitude is always a choice that only can be chosen by the individual. It is up to the parent, guardian, schools system, or whomever to discipline properly at the moment of the bad decision for the benefit of the child's future.

When both parents and school systems work together for the benefit of the children can they have a better understand of themselves and others, so they can live as rightful adults, both biological and mental.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Diary of a Nudist: Gypsy Taub Interviews Nudists Julie and Rich

2009-02-24T14:10:00.001-05:00

What is body acceptance? It is simply accepting that your body is something divine. Why have we come to the point our bodies are bad, immoral, and sinful? Does any religious text really state that being naked, having sex (making love), or anything that relates to the human body is something bad. The answer is simple. It is how one interprets what they read.

That is the confusion about faith/religion is that there are leaders that have their own point of views that does their best to run other people lives. Teaching anything about any subject, the instructor must be very open and objective. The responsibility of teaching is too great. All must learn by their own views with the proper discipline in education. Tyranny in teaching, students cannot learn.

When parents teach their children openly about the human body, then their children will respond to that in the way they should. It is the lack of teaching that children get the wrong message. They end up having sex even though they do not really want to do so. They simply follow the same mindless propaganda that is being regulated by our own government and laws they produce. Laws should protect children and everyone else in the society, but laws are there to take away freedoms due to fear.

Right now, the legal system, at least in the United States of America, does more suppression against freedom for the name of security. Nothing wrong with security. I have a good deal of security on my computer, but if I had more than one firewall or antivirus software I could mess up my computer. Too much security in a given society is very dangerous. It destroys the concept of having laws to protect freedoms.

Religion or organized religion is another source of suppression. If no two people do not think alike, then how can the believe alike? They cannot. When a religious teacher teaches a one sided view of a faith, then that teacher will teach more propaganda then the faith itself. When it comes right down to it, faith can only be lived by the individual. Parents are suppose to teach us and raise us so that we can function on a given society.

By that right teaching in the home can children live the way they should, fully and completely. There is not such thing as perfection in life. Parents cannot be perfect, but they should do their best for their own children and not let others teach their children what they should be teaching them. If parents really wants their children to do right with their own bodies when they are adults, then it must start in the home.

In the two videos of the link at the bottom, it will show a couple that will show the importance of body acceptance. We must accept who we are at something divine instead of something sinful and dirty. We are wonderful creatures. By proper child rearing, can we learn to accept our bodies and the opposite gender as something divine. Knowledge is power. Ignorance is damaging.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Real Name: Brandon Bowes

Diary of a Nudist: Gypsy Taub Interviews Nudists Julie and Rich

Reporter's Notebook: Cultural Taboos Around Sex Feed AIDS Epidemic | Online NewsHour | February 23, 2009 | PBS

2009-02-24T10:59:00.001-05:00

This article is a good lesson for parents in the Untied States of America. What I mean is parents can see the result of bad or no information on the human body and sex. Life is teaching parents that they need to teach their own children about the human body, or the results will be disastrous.

What is so hard about teaching your own children about their bodies, and even teaching them about the body of the opposite gender? Have we all on our planet been brain washed from all the religious dogma, the media's irresponsibilities of how they present the human body, love making, etc? What is more real to you Mr & Mrs. parent? Is is blind faith from religious dogma, what Hollywood tells you, or your responsibilities in being proper parents?

If parents do not become parents, teenagers will go to sex parties, partake in some kind of illegal drug use, young female girls will get pregnant while they are children themselves, teenagers getting some kind of STDs or STIs, parents will be parents all over again, etc. Only ignorance causes disasters in life.

How parents teach their own children about the human body is not what this blog is about, but to get them teach it, completely and totally. I have suggested things in past posts, but it is up to the parents to rightfully teach this subject. If we all wait for others to do things for us, it will not get done. That is the price of freedom, responsibility.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Reporter's Notebook: Cultural Taboos Around Sex Feed AIDS Epidemic | Online NewsHour | February 23, 2009 | PBS

2009-01-14T00:02:00.001-05:00

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Dowagiac Daily News- Talking about sex education that works

2009-01-12T13:53:00.001-05:00

Here is why I believe that most sex education does not work. What is being taught is the ideology part. Facts in a cold non-human concept is what is the problem. These teenagers are human beings. They are born with a sex drive that can be very powerful to them. This is not bad or dirty thing. It should not be suppressed nor be ignored.

What parents are saying

What Kids are Saying about "The Talk"

All of the sudden, the hormones start to kick in for the very first time in a teenager's life. Instead of teaching children that this is a evil corrupt aspect of their lives, which has confused the complete hell out of them, they should be taught that it is a wonderful thing in their lives. When they can see this new aspect of their lives as something great, then they can see the importance of being responsible for these new changes in their lives.

I cannot say this enough, "There is nothing wrong, dirty, nor evil about sex. Having sex with another is very wonderful indeed. Here is something that is not mentioned by the fast media, sex is a expression of love not only towards each other, but for self in that love making. When you love another, it is a lot more then a physical attraction. Love has a whole new and different types of responsibilities in every aspect.

Can two people love without being married? Sure they can. The importance of a marriage is a bond commitment that can stand for a lifetime. That is the major difference in having sex with another and making love. By a true and loving commitment, two people can love each other in so many ways, then physical contact.

When teenagers can learn to first see that nudity of both genders are beautiful and wonderful part of life, then they can learn more about all they need to know about the human body. We humans sexual beings, but by no means are we to behave live wild animals. In fact, wild animals do not act like pornography shows us. Let's face it, porn is not a reality, neither is Hollywood, which is surely pushing the grounds of sex.

I have stated many times in this blog to parents, "What would you rather have your children see the naked body first? You or what is shown on the media?" I would not recommend having your doors open so you children can see mom and dad making love on a sexual note, but again, what would you rather your children to see first, sexual acts on the media or from you?"

Believe it or not, parents can never keep their children in seeing all that is being shown in the world today, and that includes all the misconceptions of nudity and sex. It seems that more and more are constantly being shown throughout life on this subject. Sex is so powerful that is can be used as a marketing tool to make more money. I personally do not believe this is ethical at all. Sex and nudity should never be used to make money.

That is why I am writing this blog in the first place. This blog is not to change the world. If I could, I am sure the world would be a lot worse then it is today. This blog is to simply enlighten parents to be parents. This parenthood has a great responsibility in teaching their own children about the human body in every way they can.

Tell your kids to have sex!

Having natural and normal nudity in the home can do more in allowing children to understand their own bodies then a textbook alone. Children has never go sexual out of control by seeing their own parents naked. Any information you do read on the contrary, find out the reasons and the sources this information came from. I am sure you will find that is has no basis of any stature of truth or reality. Most ideas as such are simply an opinion and nothing more. Nothing wrong with opinions, but when it comes to your children's future, then parents must stick with the facts then opinion from others, even psychiatrist.

Parents by law are the ones responsible for their own children. Any advise given my psychiatrist, medical professionals, teachers, etc. is just that, advise. How you the parent goes from there is complete and totally your responsibility. The outcome of your children's lives should be the drive to get you to do what is the right thing for them. What others may think should never keep you, the parent, in doing your responsibilities of being a parent.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Dowagiac Daily News- Talking about sex education that works

Begin sex education early, advise experts

2009-01-01T15:40:00.001-05:00

Here is why sex-education in public, private, and especially religious schools do not work: Science in not taken seriously. There cannot be any political or religious control over science, but these two are do so in schools today. There are moral issues regarding everything in life, but knowledge in anything cannot be tainted by others.

Children should have a basic understanding of the human body long before they reach puberty. Let's face it, children are going to either learn about the human body by their parents first or they will learn it from the mixed up and slanted views on the media (television, movies, talking with their peers, and even the news). Today there are far too many teenagers having STDs, unwanted pregnancy, and all the rest. The rest of their lives will be highly effected due to bad information about the human body.

What is so bad about parents taking the time to teach their own children about the human body? There is no record to show that teenagers go out and have sex due to proper parental teachings of the human body to their own children. There is plenty of proof that teenagers do have sex at parties and with whom they may or may not love without a hint of understanding of the consequences of their own actions until it is far, far, too late.

I have stated many times that having natural nudity in the home can do more in teaching children about the human body then mere words. I ask, "What is so dirty about parents allowing their own children to see their naked bodies?" What would you parents rather you kids see naked first, a complete stranger at a party, someone else's bedroom, movie, television show, Internet, or you the parent?" No matter how you raise your own children, you will not keep your own children from seeing the negatives in life. That is a complete and total impossibility!

Today children are seriously touched starved. Due to the silliness of our legal system, teachers cannot even hug a child. How dumb is that? If parents do not touch and hug their own children, the teachers cannot, then who will? Due to this "touch starvation," child molesters use that need of children to put them in their domain. For nearly all children that have been victims child molestation, they have had a record of sever "touch starvation." The first person that come into their lives that ever shown them true love.

That is right parents, showing love towards your own children very important. Teaching them about their own bodies is a great form of true love. Touching and hugging is another. Allowing them to do the same in return is their way to learn how to love another, so do not deprive them of learning touch and hug you. in most European countries, families bath together and even each other. This is not sexual abuse in any way. Touching and being touched is not an immoral sexual act, unless it is not consensual. That of course is another matter.

It is sad to report that there are parents out there in all walks of live that do sexual assault their own children for their own sexual pleasures. This is very bad and they should be punished to the fullest of the law. What I am stating here has nothing to do with abusing children, but to allow children to grow with the fullest knowledge that only parents can teach to their own children.

If parents that is reading this is worried that they will get into trouble of sexual abusing their children in teaching their children openly and fully, then do not fear. The law knows that parents are to teach this subject in every way they can. Parents do not fear that your children will become sexually out of control if they see you naked. If seeing a naked body brings out sexual misconduct then hospitals will be having sex orgies a numerous times a day. They do not do this, of course.

If there is no other excuse for parents in teaching their children about the human body in every way possible, then why are so many parents in the 21st Century not teaching their children? Why are a family that can be in the same room be thousands of miles apart? The worse child abuse that can ever be done on a child is doing and saying nothing to that child. Remember how easy it is for a child molester to entice a child? Children want and need love. They want and need to be touched and to touch others.

If a child can go about a home with no clothes one, then they will not freak by seeing mom and dad doing the same. Instead they will grow up with a healthy and wonderful understanding of the human body in both genders. If children can be naked and even see another naked body and be normal about it, then why are adults 180 degrees opposite from that? That is very easy to answer, their parents taught them either directly or indirectly that being naked is something dirty or bad. Since most parents do not do or say hardly anything to their children, then it is not directly.

Believe it or not, what you do not say or do is more important in what you do or say. Actions or the lack there of tells more to a child then anything else. Children are more observant then one might think. Parents to do this job does not require to be a brain surgeon or a rocket scientist. All it takes is love and a lot of commitment. Please do the right thing and teach your own children about the human body before something or someone else doe it for you. If you are not in control, then it is very likely others will do a very horrible job in teaching about the human body.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Begin sex education early, advise experts

The Human Body

2008-12-28T12:50:00.001-05:00

It has been sometime since I have written in this blog. In SecondLife, I was talking very openly to another on this subject. We both agree that parents should teach very openly on the subject of the human body. There is really no excuse on parents not doing so because there are no wrong ways or right ways in doing this job.

What I mean, each person is different. What may work for one may not work for another. In the USA, England, and several other countries are controlled by the Christian popular have parents that do not even talk about this subject to their children. It amazes me at times that these closed mined countries towards the human body can be fearful of the natural naked body and be open in every way towards pornography. It does not makes any sense.

There are countries on this Earth that have families that bathe together, they touch each other (non sexually, but if they did do it sexually it is saying a lot more about family bonding then how countries like the United States of America is doing), they constantly see natural nudity in the home, and all the rest. These children do not turn out messed up or overly sexually active at all. It is the children/teenagers that do not have the right parental training on this subject that ends up at sex parties, having sex with ever person they meet in school, etc.

Nudity is not harmful in the home. Here is a fairly good article on nudity in the home. Here is another good one "How to Practice Nudity in Your Family." Please do not get confused with modesty with this subject. There is a place to teach modesty to children. It is a very important part of their lives. When parents can teach their children to open of in the home, "nudity in the home," then parents can teach modesty properly and correctly.

Modesty must not be the tool shamefulness of the human naked body. One does not pee on the side of the road or in the open so all can see. That is not openness of the human body. Modesty is knowing when and where one can do things in its proper place. It is the sum total of complete respect towards others, but first one has to have love and respect for self before they can show the same towards others.

I cannot stress this enough, I have seen pictures online of teenagers having all forms of sexual transmitted disease (STDs) that would make the best horror movie win best comedy of all time. Why are teenagers having sex with others even the ones they never met before? Are they finding something that is not there? Believe it or not, these teenagers are finding love. They want to feel the touch of another. They want to bond in a loving way with another. Today a given average family can be in the same room and be thousands of miles apart. How sad.

If anyone ever could get rid of pornography in the world or at least in their community, the only way is for parents to be parents. This means more then feeding their children. It means doing everything together as a family. Being open to the fullest is the only way to bond completely and totally in every way. How parents do this, I cannot say. That is for them to decide, but they need to do it.

Have you ever thought that the sex laws in the United States of America are far too much or ridiculous? Ever thought of having them removed? If everyone can show more maturity in the home by the parents and the children when they grow up and live on their own, it all starts in the home. Did you know that most countries are so mature about the human body, they removed or never had "incest laws?" This is how I look at it, and it might be to the extreme, but I rather have family making love to each other then how family continue to be so far apart from each other as so many do in the USA.

By any means, I am not promoting anything. I cannot do that anyhow. How one live their lives is up to them. This entire blog is to enlighten and encourage parents to teach their children about the human naked body to the fullest of their own abilities. I cannot tell them how to do it. I may show some goods examples or forms on how they can, but I cannot go into their homes and do it for them.

It is ever so important that children learn all that their parents can teach them. School alone cannot do this education justice. Nor can any other organization. The children does not belong to the state, churches, or anyone else. They belong to the parents that caused them to be born in the first place. What laws that need to be enforced are the ones that invoke parents to be parents.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Don't kid about sex - Children know more than parents think

2008-12-06T15:38:00.001-05:00

http://www.jamaica-gleaner.com/gleaner/20081206/features/features1.html

Why is STIs or STDs on the rise? Who is responsible for children learning about the human body? Should schools be teaching this subject? What about the parents? What about the children? They should be learning about their own bodies as well as the opposite gender, yes?

LIVE - Sex Education - Who's REALLY Responsible?

Come right down to it, the parents are the ones that are responsible. If schools are going to take part in this due to parents are not doing their jobs right, then schools need to be fully open to the subject. Schools should at least teach the scientific concepts of the human body. Just teaching to wait tell marriage is not making the grade. With the media showing more and giving out bad information about sex and the human body, then schools and parents needs to give out more information on the subject of the human body.

If the media is going to show some concept of the naked human body without showing it all can and has made a lot teenagers/children more confused over their own sexual development. Schools and parents can show the human naked body without degrading themselves or the children. Since the media does show degradation, then the human naked body must be shown in the right way. The will lift the confusion that teenagers/children get from the media. Another words, fight fire with fire.

Think Your Sex Education Is Bad? Do Something About It!

SEX education video

What is sex education? Believe it or not most parents do not have a clue in how to teach it....mainly due to the fact it was not taught to them by their parents. It is not as difficult as it may seem. That is why I have started this blog in the first place. To enlighten and help parents do this job to the fullest for the future of their children. It is a lot more to learning about sex then the act of sexual intercourse. That is why I use the ideology "the human body" then sex-education. The fundamentals of it is to learn about one's own body. Learning about the opposite gender is a good thing too.

Sex Education for Girls Part 1

Sex Education for Girls Part 2

Boys turning into men have a lot to learn about their bodies as well. There is nothing bad or dirty about learning about the human body, but there something wrong if parents/schools are not going to do their jobs properly. I strongly believe that it is the parents that should be teaching this subject. If they do not, then it is better for the schools to do it than having children not learn one thing about the human body.

As Boys Grow (1957) Part 1 of 2

As Boys Grow (1957) Part 2 of 2

Sources for Sex Education

Melissa Mixon, “Abstinence programs brace for major funding cut,” October 6, 2007, http://www.statesman.com/news/content/news/stories/local/10/06/1006abstinence.html.
David J. Landry and Susheela Singh Jacqueline E. Darroch, “Changing Emphases in Sexuality Education In U.S. Public Secondary Schools, 1988-1999,” Family Planning Perspectives 32, no. 6 (October 2000), http://www.guttmacher.org/tables/3220400t.html#t3.
“Maine Declines Federal Funds for Abstinence-Only Sex Education Programs, Says New Guidelines Prohibit 'Safe-Sex' Curriculum,” September 23, 2005, http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/medicalnews.php?newsid=30992.
Susheela Singh and Jacqueline E. Darroch David J. Landry, “Sexuality Education in Fifth and Sixth Grades in U.S. Public Schools, 1999,” Family Planning Perspectices 32, no. 5 (October 2000), http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/journals/3221200.html.
P.J. Huffstutter, “States refraining from abstinence-only sex education,” Boston Globe, April 9, 2007, http://www.boston.com/news/nation/articles/2007/04/09/states_refraining_from_abstinence_only_sex_education/.
“Study: Abstinence programs no guarantee,” CNN.com, April 14, 2007, http://www.cnn.com/2007/EDUCATION/04/13/abstinence.study.ap/index.html?eref=rss_education.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Real Name: Brandon Bowers

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Let's Talk About Sex - Page 1 - MSN Health & Fitness - Men's Sexual Health

2008-11-30T17:38:00.001-05:00

Most if not all cases that deal with sexual problems are in the United States of countries that have closed mined aspects towards the naked human body and sex. There are medical issue that have nothing to do with ignorance or fear of the naked body and sex, but ignorance and fear is the biggest factors.

What are countries like the United States so negative towards the natural aspect of the human body and sex? First of all, it is the lack of teachings in the home. That is why I started this blog in the first place. The simplest solution to anything in life is for the parents to teach their children about the subject in question, in this case the human body. We are born with a human body, and both genders needs to know about the other as well as their own.

It is very interesting to me that children are so opened in being naked in the home while the parents are so fearful towards it. How is this. Sounds like a contradiction. It is a contradiction. Children are taught to believe either directly or indirectly that their bodies are something bad and should be covered up. This type of "cover up" is more then wearing clothes.

The meaning of the word "cover up" means this in context: Hide from view or knowledge. Instead of teaching their children about the human body, they end up teaching their children to hide from knowing about it. These children believe that it is wrong to know about their own bodies and the opposite gender's body. When they see what is shown on the media, they only see the pleasurable side of sex, but know nothing of the consequences of the misuse of sex. The end result of this ignorance starts a continually cascading down hill effect that can nearly destroy children's future.

I have seen photos of STDs that would make the best horror movie win best comedy by comparison. In the link provided, once you get to this website, remember to right click the links and select new window or new tab. There are a lot of pictures. It may be easier to look at all of them if you did not have to back up so much. It is important for parents to look at all of them. If you do not do your job right in the home, these photos could of your own children.

If your children have the right information from you in the home, they can have the best sex life. You can be grandparents when you should then while your children are still children. From Wikipedia, on "Teenage Pregnancy," teenagers are getting pregnant between the ages of 13-17. At that age, they are still children. When they do get pregnant at this age, who are the parents and who are the grandparents. The answer, the parents of the children that are having the babies.

One may ask, where are the fathers that are apart of getting the female child-mothers pregnant? When teenagers goes at these parties and have sex orgies, it is hard to know who is the father. Even if the pregnancy is caused by a boy friend, it is hard to get the parents on the young male side to take up the responsibilities. To prove it, the parents of the future father must have the permission to have a blood test on their child. In most cases they do not allow it, and the parents of the expecting mother are the only ones that are providing for the new born.

All of this, the STDs, the unwanted pregnancy, and all the complexity of children having children can be easily controlled by proper education long before children become sexually active. Believe it or not, there can be nudity in the home and be used for sexual knowledge, and have children learn about the human body. Being naked is not a sin or a crime. Having your children go through all what I have stated should be a serious crime. It is better for children to see the natural human naked body than having them be confused by what the media shows today.

I cannot make it clearer on how important it is for children to be taught by their parents on this very important issue, the human body. There are so much more to know then then just the importance of waiting to have sex. Telling them do not have sex until you are married has never ever worked. The only way to fight the imbalance of the negative information that is out there is to use the correct information. As with any adult, children cannot learn just on words alone.

With something like human naked body. It is so important that they see it, or their first visual eye contact will be what the movies and television shows them. So here is a very important question, "Would you rather have your children see first, mommy and daddy naked, or what the media will show them?" Today in the 21st Century, it is impossible to keep them from seeing what is shown on the media in this regard. Parents cannot keep their children in lockup during their young age.

Only the right type of child rearing, communication, and all that parents, and only what parents are responsible for, can make a big and only difference in how children learn about their own bodies, and life itself. Please, please, please, parents do your jobs right. It can and will make all the difference in your children's life. Blessed Be.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Let's Talk About Sex - Page 1 - MSN Health & Fitness - Men's Sexual Health

Diary of a Nudist: Nudist Photo of the Day 11/27/08 - Happy Thanksgiving

2008-11-27T13:17:00.001-05:00

I have added this post to show that it is normal and beautiful to be naked. At least the USA has all over its media the 180 degree opposite of this normality. It is so important that children learns that the human body is beautiful and very wonderful thing to have. If they only learn what they see on the media, then how can they have proper and wonderful self esteem about their own bodies?

Yes, your naked body is very beautiful. It does not matter the shape, size, or whatever. What we see on the movies and television men and women having skinny and a certain shape bodies. It is true that less fat we have on our bodies is healthier, but it is not less beautiful. It is true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The most important eye that we all need to have is our own. Once we see our beauty, then we can see the beauty in others.

When children are taught that their bodies are beautiful on a real and constant basis, then they will have a proper and healthy self esteem towards themselves. That can only lead to self control of their sexual lives when their bodies start to develop sexually. What we all learn from the media is that sex feels good, and it does. What is not being realized until afterwards is the possible dangers in sex.

Today there are way too many teenage girls (12-14 years old) becoming pregnant. At these ages, they are no more capable to be parents. That is why I call teenagers, children. In their mentality, most teenagers are children. They have a lot more to learn before they can rightfully be trusted in adult responsibilities. There is where PROPER parenthood comes in to play.

Again, when children can see that the human naked body is wonderful and beautiful, then they can understand how important it is to take care of it. When parents do their jobs right at their children's early age, they can be able to to present all the right information to their children as the years goes by. When parents do their jobs right in this regards, their children will reflect on what they will learn.

I have seen pictures online of teenagers having all sorts of STDs or STIs that would make the best horror movie win best comedy. Most if not all STDs or STIs will be with these teenagers for the rest of their lives. Another words the future of having a wonderful sex life is in the history books before they become adults. The chance of them allowing their parents to become grandparents is dead. I ask you, "What would you rather allow you children to face? Seeing you the parent(s) naked in a natural way as in the photo from the link below that this blog posting is about, or continually not raise them in a wonderful and proper education on this subject?

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Diary of a Nudist: Nudist Photo of the Day 11/27/08 - Happy Thanksgiving

YouTube - Social-Sex Attitudes In Adolescence 1/4 (1953)

2008-11-25T16:23:00.001-05:00

This is a very old video that I thought did a good job in showing the importance of parents teaching their own children about the human body. Spite what you may learned from the media and mixed up religious point of view, the human body is a wonderful and beautiful thing. Obviously, we are not born with this knowledge. Parents must teach this subject openly and fully to their children.

The consequences is more undesirable then unwanted pregnancy, STDs, AIDS, or Hepatitis B or C. The worse of them all is having your own children grow up ignorant to the human body, or learn it from bad sources, like the media or by their fellow school students. Even if your children end up single all their lives, they still need to learn about the human body.

Children are given parents for a reason. Human beings are different animals from the rest of the animal kingdom. We have rationality and able to act on what we think. There are no other animals that can be as good in thinking then humans. In that we have to be taught everything. Nothing is automatically given to us, as far as knowledge.

If there is going to be a very important thing that children are going to learn, it would be the human body. They need to know about the opposite sex/gender body as much as their own gender. The earliest you can teach them about the human body the better. Human beings are sexual creatures. If we are to act humanly about our own sexual life, then the right and full knowledge must be given to children in the home.

I have stated many times of the importance of nudity in the home. It appears that most of the people in the United States, where all are created equal, fear the human naked body. In most other countries, they see the naked body all the time. Nudity is a normal part of life, and should not be a shameful thing. That is the whole entire purpose of sex education, to allow the children to learn that their bodies are not bad while at the same time know how to take care of their own body and have wonderful and safe sex life.

How are parents going to teach their own children that plain nudity is not bad? First they must see the difference in plain nudity and pornography, and there is a major difference. Here is a link to a website that has plain nudity pictures. Simply click the button "View the Galleries..." I promise there will no sexual pictures in then, even though I have nothing to do with this website. I simply want to allow the showing of non-sexual nudity.

It is amazing that so many from other countries can be so open to the human naked body and the people in the USA are so closed minded about it. How I see it, there is no reason for it. We can change all of that and start to teach our own children about the human naked body.

Do you parents knows the proper names of a male and female body parts regarding the sexual organs? One might be very surprised the true names of the sex organs of the human body. The slang words are used way to much, and they are not all that attractive either. Another issue that parents might have is they do not know what to teach their children. There are tons of proper and complete information online today, but here is a website that can help these parents out.

In the 21st Century, there is no real good excuse of ignorance. Now that families are staying home more due to the current economy plight, there is no excuse for not communicating with your children on the human body and sex, or any other in formation that is vital for your children's needs in growing up.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Real Name: Brandon Bowers

PS. Please do not forget to watch all 4 segments to this video on YouTube. Thank you. :D

Foreplay is overrated, researchers claim - Telegraph

2008-11-09T14:09:00.001-05:00

This article interested me very much. In regards to this blog, I came to this conclusion: All that we know about sex is what we see on the media. If pornographic movies are showing more foreplay then the actual sexual intercourse, then what are children really learning about sex?

Not much it seems. Sex is everything that makes us human. True there is more to the human being the the result of sexual intercourse. Though that is where life begins, or the results there of. Instead of having children learn about the human body and how they are came into existence, all forms of life shows them every thing except that information.

This proves that sex is not a sin. If it was, the all forms of human life is sinful. By the Christian standards, sin is anything that is opposite of the plan of God. For Wicca, it is the Wiccan Rede, "Do as you will as long as you do not harm none." These two down to its common denominator is about parallel to each other. That is humans should live on the highest end of life.

For children to reach that high end of life, they much be taught a great deal of the human body and even sex it self. This does not mean that the parents or school teachers are to have sex with their children/students, but they must learn what is sex and what it is not sex. If the media is going to show the wrong means of foreplay, sexual intercourse, and everything else regarding to the human body and human life, then parents and schools systems must use all means to counter act what the media does show.

Believe this or not, parents, schools, libraries, etc. are not going to keep children from all forms of the media. Another words, there are wonders in life and on the media. The Internet has tons pornographic materials, even for free, but there are many tons more online that wonderful and safe for all ages and genders. Parents and schools can even use the same Internet for the benefit of children/students on this subject.

Children should be taught this subject not just on waiting to have sex. We all are sexual beings. To utilize this very important aspect of our lives properly, knowledge and the full right kind of knowledge must be taught. So what are parents, schools, churches, or whomever teaching children? If teenage pregnancy is still high, STDs are still an issue, and the media is still showing all they are showing regarding sex, then I have to say, children are not learn a hell of a lot.

Let me show you that the children that will make a difference in the future are able to make the right decisions regarding their own life. It is the young generation that vote for Barack Obama for President. Most of the baby boomers voted for McCain. The young generation has made the right choice. I hope that this blog can influence them to teach their own children properly in the home.

How parents do this is not all that important. As long as they do it, their children will benefit from it. There are many ways to learn things. From history's past, it seems that only the parents can successfully teach their own children about the human body and sex itself. If this young generation does not do it, then the issues regarding the misuse of the human body and sex itself will get a lot worse then it is today.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Foreplay is overrated, researchers claim - Telegraph

Study First to Link TV Sex To Real Teen Pregnancies - washingtonpost.com

2008-11-03T13:58:00.001-05:00

Spite all that we may believe, the media has a bigger influence on all of us. After all, it made us watch what they wanted us to watch and when to watch it. Regarding this article that I am writing this blog post about, sex sells. Hollywood is in the business of making money.

The issue is not really about sex in the media, but how it is being presented on the media. There is nothing wrong with the human naked body. If one really looks at it, one will see the human body, male or female, is an engineer master piece. Even though each gender has the same parts, we all look different from the other. This marvel should not be feared, but highly respected. We should not fear seeing the naked body at all.

When we do see it, we can automatically be aroused by it. This nothing to be ashamed of. It is a normal healthy reaction. In that normality, we are in control of our actions. Another words we do not go sexually out of control in seeing the naked body, especially how the media shows it. We are more rational behaved human beings they the media sets us all out to be.

Then why are teenagers following all the media hype on sexual activities? Again, the media does have a very strong influence. What is not influencing children are their own parents. I strongly believe it is the confusion of the lack of information that they get from their parents that is the bigger issue. When the movies, television shows, songs, and all the rest shows how wonderful sexual activities are DUH children will follow.

Sexual activities are wonderful, when it is use properly. If the media shows all the STDs, AIDS, and unwanted pregnancies, then children/teenagers will not be going to parties and having sex as they do. When schools teach to wait until marriage to have sex, they are ignored by teenagers that have already had sex many times. These teenagers might have been lucky to keep from being pregnant and getting any of the STDs, but they may not be so lucky the next time.

If parents are taught this subject at home in the proper manner, then all of the confusion, unwanted pregnancies, STDs, etc., would not be an issue as it is today. Most of the mishaps that children face in life could have been avoided, if their parents did the jobs right in the first place. This does not mean the world would be perfect if parents did their jobs correctly.

Even with full proper education, mistakes and other disasters will occur. With the right knowledge before hand, might make the disasters a lot less potent otherwise. I cannot say this enough, "Knowledge is power." There is nothing like it in the entire universe. What makes us who we are is based on our experiences. We get experiences from the knowledge we obtain. Humans are educated beings.

For parents to teach this wonderful subject called "the human body," it takes more saying, "This is a penis and this is a vulva." It is a day by day system of experiences throughout the life of children. As their bodies will develop and grow to adulthood, there are many things they need to know about their bodies and sex.

True, children should wait to have any sexual in counters. The big thing is that the human body was not meant to have sexual intercourse with everyone, DUH! Again, people might be lucky to get a way with it, but sooner or later that next person might have some form of sexual disease, knowing or not knowing, and bam!

Most of the STDs today have not cure, and what about hepatitis? There is no such thing as 100% safe. I strongly believe that parents should be the only one to teach this subject because they are the only one that can rightfully educate and guide their own children. Sad to say, what I believe will not get the majority of the parents to start doing this wonderful job.

Every adult sees the dangers if children continue to go in the direction that they are going with sex. I guess it is the same as knowing that your next door neighbor is beating his wife and keeping silent in helping out by at least calling the police. Our fears keeps us quiet and keep us from rightfully thinking so we can act on the situation at hand. Ignoring a problem will not make it go away. Usually it makes it a lot worse.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Study First to Link TV Sex To Real Teen Pregnancies - washingtonpost.com

Feds move toward running seized Vegas strip club | Bakersfield Now | Local & Regional News

2008-11-01T16:39:00.001-04:00

No wonder sex education is not working in schools. If the federal government is going to run a strip club, then they are not caring about children. As the old saying, "Be careful to call what is bad good, and what is good bad."

We have a government that supports pornography, strip clubs, and all things that are sexual immoral. No wonder the media is getting so bad. Could it be that our federal governments want it to continue? From this one article, I have to wonder. I am sure that there are more cases that are a lot worse then what is written here in this article.

This blog is not meant to demean our government or raise fear and other illogical ideologies. Why I am writing this blog is to give the responsibilities to parents, as it should be. Children have parents for a reason. That reason is to have them raised to be able to live an adult life responsibly and properly.

How does one live the way they should? It is based on knowledge of oneself and how to use that knowledge of oneself. Who we are is based on our own experiences. If we know very little of ourselves including our bodies, then what are we? Ignorant for one.

The result of sexual ignorance is the result of this article. It has gone far beyond STDs, AIDS, and other diseases. It has left parents out to be afraid to do their jobs and their responsibilities as parents. Our government, it seems, is selling out family values for money. Instead of allowing parents to teach their own children, they are wanting to use them to make money is immoral sexual activities.

Parents you all can reverse this. How? By being parents once more. There is not right or wrong way to teach your children about the human body. The more you teach them, the better. Let them see that their bodies is not bad. By allowing them to see the naked human body with the teaching of being responsible of it, can make all the difference.

Being naked is not bad or immoral. How it is being shown in strip clubs is immoral. Sexual intercourse is not bad. How it is being shown in the media and pornography is very degrading to both males and females. Yes, a person can get a lot of money by being in a pornography movie, but it also has a lot of cost for the individual in these movies other them STDs. To sell oneself for sex for money is the price of complete self respect. Is this how you want your children to turn out?

What will the turn out of the federal government running this Vegas strip club? I can bet it is not for the benefit of the future of children today. What are the federal government thinking? It is very sad that they would do something like this. What will they do next. Again, only parents can change this by teaching their own children about the human body. Please all parents start doing this job.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Feds move toward running seized Vegas strip club | Bakersfield Now | Local & Regional News

Sex Education by Planned Parenthood on Hold

2008-10-31T13:56:00.002-04:00

Parents should be teaching this subject in the home, and not getting the schools to teach it the way they want them to. There is an old saing, "If you want something done right, do it yourself." Schools are suppose to teach achademics, and not be parents. Schools have enough to to do. They cannot take up the responsibilities of parents, PERIOD!!

In the past schools have tried to teach the human body to children, but there were so many parent that kept them from doing it completely and poperly. Children/teenagers needs to see the naked body in a natural setting. If the media is going to go all out and show the sexual activities, then children/teenagers needs to see the same sexual activities in a manner that is normal as well as be taught the responsibilities of these actions.

Right now, children are becoming mothers/fathers. Sad to state that the fathers run away from their, so called girl friends, when they get pregnant. That only leaves the parents of the childish mother to take care of the child. Children cannot raise children, especially if their own parents do not teach them anything regarding life in the results of the human body and sex.

Parents that pass the buck to the school system is not teaching your own children about the human body. It does state that you do not give a damn about your own childrne to do all that you can on their behalf. The schools cannot really teach this subject for the respoect of the Constitution of the United States of America regarding "Freedom of Religion." What can be a double wammy on the religious side of sex educaiton is that most if not all religions fear the human naked body. This is another thing that children gets very screwed on.

No wonder why so many of the young generations turn away from faith/religion. It only give them heartache and trouble. They are the ones that are getting AIDS, STDs, unwanted pregnancy, and all sorts of similar issues that can simply be resolved with the love their parents. That love is knowledge that only they can righgtfully provide. There is no right or wrong way to teach your own children about the human body. Parents do not need to have a degree in the medical field to teach this to their children.

Bottem line of all that is going on as parents constantly neglect to teach this is hardship that can be avoided. Love is all parents needs to be parents.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Review group: Sex education should respect faith values

2008-10-31T09:53:00.003-04:00

All faith/religions should be respected. They are the foundations of our every day lives. Allowing others to have the freedom to believe in the way they want to is a must. In regarding to sex education, that is why this blog was written in the first place.

Schools cannot teach this jubject justly because there are many faiths/re;igions that all apply to. Churches cannot truly fulfill teaching this subject because each family unit believe somewhat differently then others. That is proper and how it should be done in the home. The right and full information should be taught based on a strong moral principles regarding sex and the human body.

What needs to be done that I have not once read or seen is to get paretns to teach their own children about this wonderful and very important subject. Laws has tried to control the media, without any progress. Children are having children as well as STDs that deforms and rightfully destroys their lives completely. The trends of where this lack of proper education of the human body destroying the future of us all. If we loose our children, we have no future.

Parents needs to stop fearing the wonders of the human body due to the media's bad influence, or whatever the issue may be. There is nothing immoral about the human body, nor sex or sexual intercourse. Due to ignorance of our children today in the 21st Century there are tons of confustion, unwanted new borns, loss of hope for a true family and bundance of a wonderful family life in years to come. This is all caused by the lack of parental guidance regarding parents not teaching their own children about the human body. School are trying to replace bad parenthood, but failing miserably.

Only mom/dad or whomever is the ones that are raising the children in the home can rightfully teach children this subject. Faith/religion is the key to doing so, but it should not be the means of destroying full and proper ededuciton of the human body. We must have some absolutes in life, or there would be chaos and confustion, but too much dos and dont's can do more damage then true chaos. If the faith/religion makes out that the human body is dirty or bad, then that will noly confuse children and lead to more frustrations with how they will take care of their own bodies.

As a whole most believe that being naked is something immoral. Let me draw a reversal on this idea: Let's say that we live in a society that states that wearing clothes is immoral and going completely naked is proper. After all we were born naked. If we had a society like that, what would our views be twards sexual activities?

What has got us all to think that the human body is something bad? I believe it is the media as a whole. Our bodies do not look like the ones in the movies, in both male and female. Right off we think our bodies are way to ugly to be naked. In that concept, we wear clothes to cover our bodies then for protection or any other reason. Shame has intered our way of thinking about our own bodies. If parents do teach their children about the human body, they end up teaching about shame for self.

While we feel and think shame for our own bodies, we are still drawn towards nudity. It is mostly for pornography because it is what is out there for us to see. Instead of leerning about our true selves, we learn how to degrade females and have a good time in the expense of abusing females. Children/teenagers/adults are learning about the human body spite all that society does to keep us from learning about it. Instead of learning about it in the right and complete manner, we pick the wrong paths.

What is availiable out there for us all to see is the wrong information that we need to learn about our bodies. What parents needs to do is to give out the right information in the home, to counteract what they have or will see in life about the human body. I believe if there is nudity in the home, children will see the natural and correct format of the human naked body. If a picture can tell a thousand words, then children can learn a lot more about the human body then any text book.

When children are properly contitioned about the reality of the human body, then when it comes to learning about the wonders of sexual intercourse, they will do so without degrading the female or male body. Again, any sexual activity is not immoral. What the media shows, in either pornography or whatever, it very immoral.

Instead of one religious group, government, or whatever throwing their own different ideas and whatnots, we all need to get together and work with parents so they can do their jobs in the way they should be doing so. Instead we are only makeing a complex situation all the more complex.

Editorial: Proposition 8: Issue is rights, not schools

2008-10-29T10:18:00.002-04:00

I strongly believe the issue is not how or what school systems teach children about the human body and sex education, but why are parents not doing this job? Parents are keeping quiet on this subject, but these individual parents will tell the school systems how they should teach their children. It does not make any good sense.

Unless parents keep their own children in a box, their children will see the sex on the media. Making more laws to control the media has never done one thing to lessen sex on the media. Since both parents cannot be with their children due to they both have to work to pay the bills, these parents needs to give more information on the human body and sex.

Throughout this blog, I have suggested that having nudity in the home on a regular basis might be the best way to allow children to see what the human body is about. Unfortunately, the media is showing sexual activities to the point of nearly showing sexual intercourse itself. There is nothing wrong with sexual intercourse, but how the media shows it, children and teenagers are not learning that they must be responsible in it. I have seen that the media degrades the female more then anything.

When a man and a woman makes love or have sexual intercourse it is a mutual connection. There is not degradation towards either party. I wonder if children needs to see that sex intercourse is a wonderful thing for both genders then just for the male ego. Again, parents cannot keep their children from watching all that the media throws out. This is not good at all. What needs to be done by parents is to counter act all the negativity that is thrown at their children on this subject.

This blog will not state how parents should do that. Each child is different. How the parents believes in can makes a different. There are way to may factors that can make anything that I can suggest to be wrong for some or many. The purpose of this blog is to get parents to do that jobs so their own children rightfully and fully educate their children about this wonderful gift, the human naked body.

Because each family unit will be different in faith, understandings, and all the rest, schools cannot rightfully teach this subject. On the other hand, children cannot be neglected on this subject. It is way too important. Also female children between the ages of 12-14 are having sex, having their own children, and turning their own parents in to parents once again. Another words if parents to not teach this subject to their own children, they just might have more children to feed and take care of then they can afford.

When parents keeps quiet, they are telling their children that they can have sex as it shows on the media. Children are also getting all sorts STDs. I have seen photos online that are so horrible of the results of these children getting these STDs that would make a horror movie win best comedy. I wonder if children at home seeing mom and dad having sex will allow children to see the reality of sex and love? With these parents talking to their children afterwards (allowing them to see them making love), I strongly believe that it can allow children/teenagers to come full circle in understanding how wonderful sexual intercourse can be as well as how important it is to be responsible with sexual intercourse.

Only knowledge can make a difference. Ignorance cannot do a damn thing. That is why children are having STDs, AIDS, having children, etc. These children only getting their education from the media, from perpressure, and their out of control hormones. So mom and dad, what will you do for your own children?

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Brandon Frater Pheonix
Real Name: Brandon Bowers

More sex education necessary, says expert

2008-10-28T18:24:00.003-04:00

If only I had this article on my first blog posting of this blog. The wonders of the human body. Children of any age should know more then the basics of their own bodies and the opposite gender. Why is that? I can give thousands of answers, but there is one that can only really fit the question, "Why not."

What is so wrong by seeing the wonders and beauty of the human naked body? That answer is simple to answer, the confusion of the media. Seeing the human naked body is not more immoral the waring clothes. In fact, wearing clothes can be considered immoral. Think about it. The best gift we can ever receive as human beings is our own bodies. Spite what we have learned from the media, we can see the naked body without wanting sex with person we see naked.

What is wrong with sex anyhow? Again, the simple answer is nothing. Sexual diseases, AIDS, and the rest have nothing to do with sex itself, but the bad or negative information we learn as children. I have learned since I was young, "A wrong thing done in a wrong way is wrong. A right thing done in a wrong way is wrong. A wrong thing done in a right thing is wrong. Only a right thing done in a right way it right." The question is what is the right thing done in the right way? Sorry, but that cannot be answered in a simple way.

When children even at an age that is younger then their bodies are fully developed should learn more about sex then simple information. If the media can show all that they show regarding sex, then parents, schools, and everyone else that are responsible in teaching children can do more. This blog has not at this point gone out of the way to say how. I do not want to be the parents of all the children. I also know there are many different ways to teach this subject.

What I have done though with this blog is suggest things. One is have fully and complete nudity in the home. When children can see that human body as it was meant to be verses what the media shows, then they can accept what it is about. Later when children's bodies start to mature sexually, then they will be able to understand more of what they are going through. When they see the media showing the wonders of having sex they will not fall into confusion over it.

Does this mean parents should have their bedroom open when they make love as husband and wife? I do not think I should answer that question. Though, hiding it might be more confusing verses what they will see on the media. Whatever you do as parents, remember this, "teenagers are having eex, becoming parents while still children, and getting all sorts of STDs. The responsibilities does belong to the parents.

The big purpose of this blog is to get parents to do this job, teach their own children about the human body. I strongly believe that school should not be doing this, but they are the only ones that really want to do something. Why are the parents not doing this job? I am afraid that I cannot answer this question. It is not that I am afraid to do so, but I do not have the answer.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,
Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Parents dodge sex education talk

2008-10-28T16:00:00.002-04:00

Why are parents today do dodge sex education with their own children? What makes the human naked body so repulsive? Is religion dogma responsible? Whatever is the cause, the question, or whatever, this is a very important subject to teach children.

I have another question, "Why is pornography so alluring? I strongly believe that pornography is so alluring is due to the lack of knowledge of our own body. Let's face it, we are sexual creatures. There is nothing wrong with our naked bodies or sex. That is why it so important for children and teenagers to learn all they can from their parents on this subject. If schools are needed to help out, then it should be completely and fully opened. The children ore either going to see in on the media or in schools. Parents, which would you rather your children to see first, sex in school or on the media? Spite who teaches this important subject to children and teenagers, it much be taught with full compactly. There should not be any short change intermissions whatsoever.

Believe it or not, children are more intelligent then you may believe. When they see their parents, school system, etc. flaking out on certain issues on this subject, they get the message very clearly, "Something is wrong!" There is nothing wrong with the human naked body or sex. The information that is taught to children/teenagers must have no confusions or misunderstandings. Parents/educators let the children/teenagers make their own decisions or viewpoints on the facts. They can do so without any help. Unless they ask questions let them take in the facs of the human body without any interference whatsoever.

When it comes to teaching about the human body it is simple. The names of the body parts have their own unique names. When it comes to sex or sexual intercourse, it is simple also. If the media can show this, then parents/educators can also. The issue is that parent/educators can show it in more respectable and truthful manner then what the media shows. There is nothing wrong for children/teenagers to see sex as what it really is about. Sex is a wonderful thing and the most responsible one also.

By the knowledge of sexual intercourse in the right format, teenagers will be able to understand the responsibilities or it. Knowledge is power. Ignorance only brings out confusion and aggravation. So parents do the right thing by teaching all that you can on the regards to the most important thing your own children has of their own, their bodies.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Children taught about sex education as young as five

2008-10-28T09:41:00.003-04:00

For the most part, most parents thinks that if children learn about sex, they will become sexual active. Well......they have already become sexually active and they hardly know the first thing about the human body other then their hormones.

When children can learn about their bodies they can be able to understand their hormones and control their sexual lives a lot better. From what I have read and understood, the most of the issues with sex is religion. There is nothing wrong with religion, but when religion stops up from being human beings, then it becomes a serious tyranny. There is nothing wrong with sex, nudity, or anything with the human naked body.

Let me see if I can do a reversal on what we are facing now. What would we do if we lived in a society that everyone was naked and wearing clothes other then a form or protection was immoral? Let's go even further. Draw a society that having sex was a healthy concept of living, with some form of controlled environment. I sometimes wonder if AIDS and other sexual diseases are the results of lack on control then just the sex itself. If I understand these two scenarios right, they cannot really happen fully without full knowledge and something more then morality control.

There is nothing wrong with being naked (in private or public), nor having sex. What I see the biggest issues children/teenagers face is that lack of parental and adult responsibilities in properly educating this wonderful subject. I have seen small children go naked in their own home without the care in the world. Why do adults not live this way? What have they learned or lack on learning that causes adults to change 180 degrees?

If seeing the naked body causes sexual activities, then hospitals must have sex orgies like going out of style. Well no hospital has these things, nor do doctor offices. Human beings might be classified within the animal kingdom, but we are not animals to the point we go sexual crazy. Wild animals do not go sexual berserk over sex. I wonder if a family was more opened to nakedness and even sex, would that allow children that are growing up with maturity and full understanding of the human body and sexual activities?

I am sure the answer would be, "It is according how it is being taught and controlled in the home." As with anything, it is up to how the parents do their jobs. Parents do not have to be highly educated people to be great parents. I strongly believe that love is a very powerful and strong aspect of life. Love bonds, unites, and builds all aspect of life. Love also requires a lot of responsibilities in life.

Parents, what would you rather have your children see naked first in life, you the parents or a so called boy friend or girl friend? I have heard and read that parents say that if they see me naked they would want to have sex with me? First of all, it will not cause you or anyone to want to rape a family member by having nakedness in he home. Again, hospitals do not have sexual orgies, and they see the naked body constantly.

Inconclusion, knowledge is power and children needs to learn as soon as they can about their own body and the opposite sex. Please, please, parents teach your children this wonderful subject, the human naked body.

Blessed be to Isis and you,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Most Ypsilanti parents want comprehensive sex education - Ann Arbor, Michigan Columns, Letters & Opinion - with The Ann Arbor News – MLive.com

2008-10-20T14:34:00.001-04:00

I simply do not get it. Why are people in the USA are so afraid of teaching about the human body? There are more that teenagers need to know then the dangers of sex. They need to know why they need to wait. Why is their body so important anyhow?

By teaching more then "Abstinence-only education" causes more confusion then anything. Teenagers are already having sex, but they do not understand what is going on with their own bodies. In result of their ignorance, children are having children. Both the parents lives of these teenagers and the teenagers themselves have their lives torn apart. All this can be dealt with before the disaster happens.

Children have parents for a reason. It is better for these children to learn about the human body from their parents. Schools can only do so much, and it has nothing to do with finances. There is a moral issue that cannot be taught in schools. Morality is not a social doctrine. It is a personal one. True, there are set of morals in a society, but it is not for society to teach morality to children. Where does morality come from? Morality means "Concern with the distinction between good and evil or right and wrong; right or good conduct" Children should be taught morality from their parents/guardians in the home, and continue this through the child's life until they live on their own.

What is the meaning of right and wrong? This answer can only be defined by a number of things, but mostly faith/religion. If I am right that the ratio of the number of people on Earth to the number of faiths/religion is 1:1, then how can schools or other public organizations teach morality? There are many countries in the world that believes that family members can make love/have sex with each other. Because these people think differently then the majority of the United States of America, does not mean they are wrong in their believes. Morality has been going on long before the United States of America been a nation, or the first settlers came to Jamestown.

If one country is not the authority of morality, then how a state teach this subject to children? The answer is very simple......they cannot. It is true that parents as a whole are not doing this very important job either. Instead of allowing teenagers to be ignorant on this subject, schools are trying to do the jobs of parents. They are failing miserably, and children/teenagers are getting more confused by it all.

That is why I have this blog. To get parents to do this simple and very important job in the here and now, then later. Now that all of us are forced into being more at home due to our current economy, parents have a great opportunity to teach not only the human body to their own children, but all the other information parents should be teaching their own children. We all can find opportunities in life if we look for them. Instead we find excuses in not doing something.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Most Ypsilanti parents want comprehensive sex education - Ann Arbor, Michigan Columns, Letters & Opinion - with The Ann Arbor News – MLive.com

Sex education in Bay County schools doesn't go far enough, students say - Bay City Times - MLive.com

2008-10-12T12:41:00.001-04:00

"Parents have a tremendous amount of influence on their children in the important issues, such as substance abuse and decisions regarding sexual activity," said Keenan, who is in his eighth year in the Pinconning district.

YES!! Parents do have a tremendous amount of influence on their children. Why sex education does not work in schools, public or private is because it was not meant to be taught there. It does seam to be the only place it is being taught on this subject, but it can never by any circumstances replace parent's responsibilities.

Why is it so hard for parents to teach their own children about the wonders and beauty of the human body? The biggest is most organized religion brainwashes their followers in thinking that the human body is something sinful and bad, including any sexual activity. With the confusion that media dishes out, no wonder parents have so much of a big deal with it, DUH!

This is why I had to write this blog. I could not simply sit at my computer and do other things in my life if I could by some chance enlightening parents, couples that want to be parents, or single people that want to get married and have children, etc. It is not as hard as it may seem for parents to do this wonderful job for their children. Believe it or not, children are already opened to knowing about their own bodies. When they start to be curious about the human body, parents can replace that curiosity with proper knowledge that only they can provide.

I have suggested having nudity in the home many, many times. In order to do this, parents have to be responsible in having a nudist home. This statement cannot be said enough, "The more that is given, the more that is required." Yes, being parents is not an easy job, but when parents do their job fully and correctly, the rewards are off the scales. Nothing can ever replace parenthood.

A Washington University study reports that comprehensive sex education programs may lead to fewer teen pregnancies.

The meaning of comprehensive is "Including all or everything." There is a lot more to the human body then a penis and a vulva. Parents do not have to have a degree in anatomy to teach their children about the human body. Anatomy class can come later. Parents you will be surprised how much your children will learn about their bodies. That is the whole point.....they need to learn this from you!

Parents can teach more then the facts to their children about their own bodies. Why parents can be the only one to teach their own children about this subject is they can teach about how important to take care of their own bodies a million times better then any organization outside the home. Another words, morality can only be taught in the home. Churches nor the state cannot teach morality better.

Morality means "Concern with the distinction between good and evil or right and wrong; right or good conduct" Have you ever heard "What is good for the goose, may not good for the gander?" What one may say it bad or immoral another may not say so. Under the guidance of parents in the home, what children learn they will take with them always. When the children grow up and become adults, they will go their own way, but they will always have that they learn in the home.

That is why it is important for parents to teach about the human body. Believe it or not, when parents do not directly teach this subject, they are do so never the less. Children will learn from all aspects of their own parents. It is that word, "influence," which means, "A power to affect persons or events especially power based on prestige etc." As the old physics quote stated, "Every action has and opposite equal reaction." Parents doing nothing on the behalf of this very important subject will cause a reaction......ignorance!

The study, based on a 2002 national survey of heterosexual teens ages 15-19, found that those who got comprehensive education that included information on birth control were 60 percent less likely to become pregnant or get someone pregnant than those who received no sex education. And researchers found no evidence that abstinence-only programs delayed sex or decreased the chances of getting pregnant.

I have stated this many of times, "Knowledge is power." Abstinence-only programs only shows teenagers that they are looked at as ignorant. This only builds barriers between the educational system and the students. The media influence or not, these teenagers have a sexual drive that can be so powerful that abstinence-only teaching will not help teenagers control it. Only comprehensive knowledge can give teenagers enough knowledge to understand and balance out their strong sexual drive, so they can not only control it, but understand why they should not jump on a bandwagon and have sex with anyone like a bunch of pack rats.

Sex is not a sin, but this does not mean it is safe to have sex with everyone. It is not the sex that can kill, but the STI (Sexual Transmitted Infections)/ STD (Sexual Transmitted Diseases), AIDS (Acquired immune deficiency syndrome or acquired immunodeficiency syndrome), or Hepatitis. What is really killing children today more then anything is the lack or parental love. That is right, it takes a lot of love to teach your own children about the human body in the way it should be taught. That is why outside organizations cannot teach this subject properly.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Sex education in Bay County schools doesn't go far enough, students say - Bay City Times - MLive.com

Youths rely on porn for sex education

2008-10-11T19:48:00.001-04:00

I could not believe what I have read. How can this one man say this? Then I thought on the lack of teaching parents do for their own children about the human body. I then thought, which is worse, using pornography for sex education or having parents not teach their own children.

Ignorance is what is dangerous. Pornography is enhancing that ignorance and letting it go wild. There is nothing wrong, immoral, or sinful regarding sex. Where do you think you come from? None of us did not come from the Sears and Roebucks catalog.

The issue that makes sex immoral is the lack of responsibilities for it. Before a child or teenager can learn to have responsibilities for sex, they must learn about the human body in both their own gender and the opposite gender. By the right knowledge from parents, children/teenagers they can have respect for their own body and the body of the opposite sex. With ignorance they cannot have anything productive.

Proper sex education is not to scare children/teenagers from having sex. Children and teenagers are a lot smarter then you may realize. With sexual activities like pornography and other sex-media relations, the scare tactics are not going to work. Only love and proper education from parents are the only way for children to get the right knowledge. School cannot do this, church organizations, or any other form. Children have parents for a reason. Human beings are the only creatures on Earth that raise their children for a good many years.

Whatever religious believes parents have, you are still responsible for raising your children properly. If you the parents wants your children to grow up and have a healthy and proper sexual life, then it is up to you to teach them all they need to know in order to learn before they leave the home.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Real Name: Brandon Bowers

Youths rely on porn for sex education

Call for compulsory sex education

2008-08-26T12:53:00.001-04:00

How hard can this be. The human body is the most natural thing we have. What is so confusing for parents to teach their own children about the human body? Maybe instead of going out of our way to get parents to do this, we might need to get the media to open more about it. What amazes me the media shows al sorts of violence, but sensors simple nudity and loving making (sexual intercourse). By any means I am not suggesting the media shows pornography. In fact, that is what the media is practically showing now.

The reason I think why parents do not teach their own children about the human body has to do what and how the media approaches this subject. I suggest that the right people encourages Hollywood to be more open and true about the human body. There is nothing wrong with nudity. There is nothing wrong with sex, but there must be a complete circle of what is being shown. What I mean, if sex is going to be shown on movies, television shows, etc, then it must show the responsibilities of it. Has anyone seen a movie that shows the consequences of unwanted pregnancies with the act of sexual intercourse? I have not. What about STDs?

There is a very old scientific truth, "Every action has an opposite and equal reaction." Does these movies show how to prevent pregnancies and STDs? No. When children/teenagers sees the wonders of sexual intercourse, they think they can do it and come out like they do in the movies. Sex is very wonderful, but the consequences can be disastrous. Let's face it everyone, we all will have sex before or after marriage. How many believe unwanted pregnancies only happen before or outside of marriage?

Believe it or not, there are more sexual consequences within marriage then from without. The place that religion demands that sex can only be done in the right way has more frustrations then anywhere else in life. I ask you all to stop now. Stop using "out of wedlock" as an excuse to teach sex/human body to your children. The act of sex is not the big issue, in our out of wedlock. What is the issue is that your own children will become parents while they are children, or they will have a disease that will be with them for the rest of their lives. In result you will be responsible for them because the will be so sick they will not be able to get a job to have health insurance.

All of this can be avoided if you the parent(s) can do your job correctly before your children's body becomes sexually active. The more they can learn before their bodies develop, the better they can have a responsible sexual life and be able to have a great life in general. We are human beings, and we should know our own bodies, and the body of the opposite sex.

Blessed Be,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Real Name: Brandon Bowers

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101 Days of Sex: How One Married Couple 'Just Did It'

2008-08-19T19:12:00.001-04:00

This is a great article from Fox News. I am writing this posting to say this about it:

Sex is a wonderful thing. It is apart of love that people share. Sex is love and love is sex. One cannot be done without the other. True there can be sex without love, but when the two become one, then it can be a marvelous experience. So why are so many in life to day not having a great sex life?

The answer is simple: Parents are not teaching their children about the human body. Ignorance of anything does not equal happiness. With sex more and more fear it. Mostly this is do to religion. The rest is due to silly so called "experts" that state a number of things that are not true. As with this "doctor's ideas" puts his/her ridiculous comments. What right did this doctor had in saying this? By the Constitution the United States of America, he did not. Sad that people and their self-righteous ideas go all their way to tell others how they should live.

This blog is not to criticize others nor, force others into doing things. I started this blog for one reason, to allow parents to understand that they and they alone are the ones that can rightfully teach their own children about the human body. Sex is a part of it, but a very small one. There is a lot more to the human body this sex. Since faith has everything to do with how we are raised and live out our lives, no one else can do this job properly.

As I stated in my last post, no one owns the bodies of the children expect the children. We all have the right to have sex with the one we love. It might be a great idea to wait till finding that right person perform you copulate. This blog is not to tell anyone how to live. All I want to do is to enlighten parents to do their jobs properly. I also want to open the minds of all about the human naked body. There is nothing dirty, sinful, or bad about the human naked body. Only ignorance causes issues, fears, and other issues.

These married couple is having sex and enjoying it. They are loving each other in the way they should be doing. What is so wrong about that? School are teaching nothing on the human body, but they are handing out condoms. There is an old computer term, GIGO (Garbage In Garbage Out). If children are having bad information about the human body and sex, then they will grow up with no love for self. How can children learn to take care of their own bodies without the right and full knowledge?

How many have watched the movie, "The Coal Miner's Daughter?" Remember how scared she was when she married the man she truly loved. That is how so many feel when they have sex with the one they love. In all cases for the ones that do learn about the human body and sex in the home, they end up more responsible about their bodies and sex life. All the unwanted pregnancy and STDs can be prevented in the most cheapest way, by parents in the home.

I have heard this a million times over, "I cannot do that as a parent because my parents did not teach me." That is not the sorriest excuse, but a right out dumb one. Today, there are tons of ways for all of us to learn and be better at anything, including parenthood. No parent is perfect. This issue that makes us better is we can continue to learn, grow, and become better as human beings. Before you couples have children, get ready to be parents right from the start. You have living beings that you are responsible for. You nor anyone else does not own these life forms, but you do have the responsibilities to raise them to the fullest of your abilities.

As the old saying, "Ignorance is not an excuse." Bad parenting is no excuse either. Early in this blog I have suggested that the best way to teach your children about the human body is have nudity in the home. There is no sin of allowing your children to see you naked or see them naked. The naked body is the most natural think in human life. It always amazes me that children can go around naked in their home without a thought about it. Why do adults fear the naked human body so much?

In closing to this post, if you the parent(s) can teach your own children about the human body, then they can have a wonderful sex life as this couple have done. They can love that special someone and have that same love in return. Only by having them know about the human body will they be able to have this wonderful life.

Blessed Be,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Real name: Brandon Bowers

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Nudity: Un-covering a bashful American

2008-08-16T12:57:00.001-04:00

To truly raise your own children about the human body is nothing major. Our bodies are a wonderful and important part of our lives. It is the media, religion, and other human groups that makes human nudity something out of the human naked body. It is our bodies and we should know about it, as well as the opposite sex or gender.

What we think, believe, and do with our bodies is the end result of the influences that are thrown at us since birth. It is this propaganda that puts a barrier between children and their parents regarding parental responsibilities in proper education of the human body. It has not been easy for parents to simply ignore this constant propaganda bombardment. Way too much "Big Brother" junk from our governments. When years goes by in the lack of proper teaching of the human body, then there is no turning back. Children suffer when they become adults. What is going on is sever low self esteem. If one cannot know about their own bodies, then how can they take care of it?

In order to take care of something, one must have love for it. Life is hard on all fronts. What makes it easier is the love that we have. How can children grow up with love for self if they are not taught right about their own bodies. What the do learn, by the world around them, is the human naked body is something very bad. Religions of all kinds constantly throw at us about the evils of sex. There are great responsibilities of sex, love making, but it is not evil.

Sure enough it is easy to say sex is bad then take up the responsibilities in guiding children in the right and proper behavior making love towards one another. If sex or love making is so evil then what doe that make babies? Talking about babies, most mothers do not breastfeed their babies due to the lack love for self. If these new mothers do not have love of self, then how can they love their children enough breastfeed their new born?

There is other issue that keeps parents from teaching about the human body to children and even breastfeeding their young, psychiatry. At time, especially dealing with parental responsibilities, psychiatry is just as bad as any religion, if not worse. Psychiatry has known to mix their belief systems to a legal court system to get others to live by their standards. Religion has also been known to do this throughout history long before psychiatry. How individuals live is not up to a culture or a society as long as they keep their private lives private. It is never government to dictate how we should rase our children, or how long a mother should breastfeed.

Parents REMEMBER, PLEASE: The bodies of your children belongs to them. It does not belong to you, the parents, nor the school system. They have the right to have sex, but they must know the responsibilities of having sex. Teenagers today have sex if you realize it or not. Parents cannot keep their children in a box, and overly protect their children. Due to wrong or no sex-education leads to STDs and pregnancy issues. Now for the religious views and lifestyles: You the parents must still teach your children about the human body under that foundation. Teaching religion in schools by most laws throughout the world is forbidden, especially in the USA. No matter how you want to teach your own children about the human body, please do it to the fullest. I believe that the person that should teach this subject is the parents. Main reason is that is where children are with most of their lives. Parents knows more of their children then any anyone else.

Parents, when your children becomes sexually active, you nor them cannot turn it off like a light switch. It is know that some sex drives are so strong that it is hard to control with the little knowledge they get. Most of the time children gets their education from the media. With the right information can make it a lot easier to control and understand their own strong sex drives. Ignorance does not control anything, other then fear. Teaching sex education through fear is damn ass wrong! Proper education is not done through fear. That is tyranny. Proper sex education must be done through Liberty. Liberty means authority and freedom. Bottom lime is children are a lot smarter then you may think. If you treat them like intelligent beings, then you can have them respond in a proper manner.

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How to Discuss Body Image

2008-08-04T16:50:00.001-04:00

This is what my blog is all about. Before we can understand everything about the human body, we must accept it as what it is about. As we all do with our soul, we somethings like and dislike certain things that effect our soul. In turn it causes us to be negative about who we are. Spite to popular believes, our human body, naked or clothed, is just as much apart what makes us who we are as a whole person.

We are all born with soul and a biological live (the human body). Do to religion and society, we are taught to look at our bodies as something as not right. Throughout, we are taught to believe our bodies a something bad and dirty. How can a penis or a vulva be any less important then a hand or a foot? When we are taught that our bodies are something wonderful and beautiful, then we can see the importance of taking better care of our bodies as a whole. When teenagers start to develop sexually, they should be using that proper and correct knowledge that learn from their parents.

Learning about HIV and other Sexual Transmitted Diseases is the a slither of the whole. Any part of any subject will not make you a gumshoe less alone an expert. The most important thing a child can learn is about him/herself. It is equally as important to learn about the body, in its entirety, of the opposite gender. How many times has a wife or that matter a husband have thought something like, "If my lover could have been taught about my body as her own, we could have a better sexual bonding?"

There is nothing wrong with foreplay, sexual intercourse, and other sexual activities. Though it is something far more dangerous that STDs. That my readers is ignorance. If everyone is on the ban wagon on improving the educational system for children, then why are we not doing the same in having parents teach their own children about their own bodies? To me it does not make any good sense.

Blessed Be,
Brandon Frater Phoenix
Real Name: Brandon Bowers

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53 Easy Tips to Use Less Water

2008-06-11T13:32:00.001-04:00

Bathe together. Two in a shower takes less water than two separate showers. Also, if you have young children, they can take a bath together rather than filling the tub two or three times.

It saddens me and even upsets me that the United States of America are the only country that looks at the human naked body as something immoral, dirty, perverted, etc. Most other countries do bathe together without any issues whatsoever. Why do we in the USA are so afraid of the human naked body?

What is so wrong for two people especially two family members to bathe together. Are they afraid to get intimate with each other, or is it simply they fear the naked body do much they loose all reason in their minds? Families should have a health intimate bonding relationship with each other. This has nothing to do with sex or having sex. What does sex have to do with it anyhow? Just the same, sex does come up when the naked body is concerned. Seeing another family member naked does not cause the other to have uncontrollable sexual desires. Believe it or not, we all are responsible for our own actions. This means we decide to do something or not.

There is one thing to have natural biological desires of sex, and what we all see on the media. Here is a big shocker for all, the media is not all ways right. Do not always believe what you hear, see, or read online or any where else. If something is too good to be true, then it is usually that, false. You know yourself better then any "so called" expert. Science is constanly adjusting to what they learn. Some theories are in time proven wrong even by the same scientist or group of them. It makes me wonder if we are to focused on absolutes aspects of our lives then living our lives.

Life is always fluid. What works for one or a small group of people may not work for others. I have learned that they are less absolutes in life then we may think. Living ones life is not chaotic either, but not everyone lives by the same pattern or paths in life. Everyone's life is unique and special. We have to live our own lives, and not live for others.

When family members do bathe together, they should not do it in there little corner of the small bath tub or shower. I say they should bathe each other. Families as a whole spend very little time together. It is very important that families do spend very intimate quality time when they can. When touching and bathing another, can not only bond them together, but can help release the tension that today's society can give us. Do not worry, this will not bring out any sexual desires among each other, but though what you do in private is your business. In contrast to how families do not spend time together, I rather have two adult family members making love in a sexual manner then anything else.

I cannot understand how a man and woman can start a family and not show an loving relationship. It really does not make good sense. Families are suppose to bond. They are suppose to share things that they would not do with just anyone. Most family members have more bonding with complete strangers then they do in the home. No wonder children are so confused and even understand love less each and every generation.

If you want to make a difference with our environment, and make a difference in the home, make a difference in life in general then bond with your family by not only bathing each other, but in everything else. Everything starts in the home. What children learns from their home raising, can and will make a difference in everything in life.

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Bless Be to Isis and you,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Given Name: Brandon Bowers

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2008-05-29T12:24:00.001-04:00

Finally, there is a website that shows true educational information about sex and the human body without the porn side of it! There is nothing worse then showing that sex is normal and then when you get into the website, all they show is porn. No wonder so many parents are confused in what to teach their own children about the human body. There is nothing dirty or wrong about sex. Please do not allow these porn sites, myths about sex, and all confusion make you think that your body, having sex is something dirty, bad, immoral, or whatever negative concepts society throws at you.

While I am thinking about it, please do not allow society to stop you new mothers from breastfeeding your children, no matter what age they are. When you do stop breastfeeding your children is no one else business. It is between you and your children. A lot of the trouble in the USA in regards to the human body is due to violation of privacy. If people think a mother should stop breastfeeding their child after year one, then that is their believe. Another words, if a mother wants to feed them when their own children are read to stop then they have the right to do it.

Now back to this posting. There is a big danger in not teaching your children about the human body. Teenage girls are getting pregnant before the reach the age of 16 years old. Since there is nothing wrong with sex in it self, there is a danger when ignorance is mixed with having sex with someone. I have said this many times and I will say it again, "I have seen photos online of teenagers have STDs or STIs that would make the best horror movie win best comedy of the century. This can all be avoided if you the parent teach your own children about the human body. Just teaching them to wait to have sex before marriage will not cut it!

What you the parents can do for your own children in the home before they become sexual active in their own bodies, can make a large and important reality to your children. All that is being shown on the media about sex is not reality whatsoever. The purpose of showing sex in ads is to sell things with sex. First of all that has nothing to do with sex. It has to do with hooking the viewer to buy an item by how they present the ad. The human naked body is not meant to be used as a advertisement. Our bodies have something more profound then something that simple.

Our bodies are meant to have sex. All animals including human beings are given a sex drive. With humans, it starts to develop in the early teen years of life. I strongly believe that children should already know all about the human body long before their hormones starts to develop. With this rush of hormones, it can be very scary at first. Some teenagers can have a very powerful sex drive.

On the parent's perspective, I would not jump on to the doctor right away. Unless your teenage child is all the sudden not functioning as he/she did before, then things are as it should be. If you trained your child right about the human body, he/she will be able to handle the rush of this. Trying to stop or slow down the natural flow of the natural on going of this strong hormones could cause more damage then you may realize.

At this stage the whole body, including the psyche, is developing at alarming rates. Every part of the teenage body is rapidly getting ready to be what the DNA has programmed it to be. Medical science might be needed, but it should never be used to silence what is natural because of fear on the parents side or even the child. I see too much of this with parents. True, order in life must be constantly adjusted in life, but not in the expense of natural life.

At the bottom of this blog is the link to the "Sex Health Guru" website. I also have this link in my other links in this blog. If parents due not know how to raise their children in learning all they need to know, which is just about everything, then I hope this website will help. That is why I have written this blog in the first place. To help parents be parents in this regard. Ignorance is no excuse whatsoever.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,

Brandon Frater Phoenix
Given Name: Brandon Bowers

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Alasandra's Homeschool Blog Awards: Zero reasons not to homeschool

2008-05-11T11:01:00.001-04:00

Parental involvement is ever so important. From all the negatives that I hear about homeschool, I believe is the result of not understanding the purpose of parenthood. Lately all that I hear about school systems is that they think they are the only ones that can rightfully teach children. This is against the Constitution of the United States of America. The state does not raise children! Parents do, or should! The purpose of state education was to teach academics to the students. Now they do all they can to take away parental rights. Sad to say most parents stated this. Do to bad parenthood, something had to be done.

Now it is way out of hand. What needs to be done is the law needs to go after these bad parents and get them to be parents. If both parents have to work to make ends meet, then that is not an easy task as it seems. I am sure a lot more homeschooling could be done if the economy was a lot better then it is today. A great deal of parents are not happy with how the school system is running and teaching their children. To solve the problems we all face, it will not be an easy clean up. It took many, many years to have us in the mess we are in as a nation. It will take at least that many years to clean house if we are willing to do the hard work.

The purpose of talking about this article in this blog is the reason why I started this blog in the first place. There are things that only parents can teach their children. As I have stated many times, "It all starts in the home." Why do you think we are so confused in our thinking today? Through generation to generation parents have not taught their children properly. They give these parental responsibilities to everyone else: The local church, schools, and other children social groups like boy's and girl's scouts. What are the parents doing all this time? Instead children are having a large number of parents when they should be having up to two. I have seen a mother raise their own children because their father died in a war or other reasons. These mothers have done a great job. There is no excuse for parents not doing their jobs and do it to the fullest.

The results of negative parenthood for children are usually on the streets because their parents run them off because they have not excuse to give them someone else. Sad but true. I have read that some parents run their own children out of the home before they become adults, go to college, and get a career started. One time I was watching this television show about how cops work in New York City. Most the the prostitutes are teenagers. Some leave home and become prostitutes just to be loved. Sex can be a form of loving, but prostitution is not.

The main purpose of this blog is to allow parents to see they can make a giant difference in their children's lives if only they would do their jobs and do it right. It is a lot to be proper parents. Anything worth having is not easy. The reward of parents doing their jobs right is priceless.

Blessed Be to Isis and you,
Brandon Frater Phoenix

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How Should Parents Teach?

2008-05-02T22:05:00.001-04:00

I have for a long time with many postings on getting parents to teach their children about the human body. The reason why is surely understandable. Children's bodies develops into maturity starting with the teenage life.

I have several answer the survey that parents allow their children to learn on their own. If their is a proper parents guidance to make sure their children understand the negatives and not to be dragged by them, then they can teach themselves. I have learn all that I know by myself, but I would not directly suggest this. The media is a lot worse then when I was growing up. There a lot of fee porn videos out there that so many children/teenagers can get confused with. What is being shown behind the eight ball with these videos is that it is okay to treat any females like a sex object. This attitude can lead to rape.

Proper teachings of the human body will not learn to any misconduct of any sexual activities. Knowledge controls. It does not lead to rape or child abuse unless parents wants to teach them things like that. Since parents are normally are not this way, then parental teachings of the human body will not lead to any misconduct.

After this video, what do you think parents? You see children/teenagers already know about their human body and sex. How would they think if you taught them about the human body before they became sexually mature or active? This is real everyone. When children learns bits and pieces from the media, then they will end up as shown in this video.

I am writing this blog to express my frustration and sadness of the lack of parenthood dealing with teaching about the most wonderful and beautiful thing in the world, the human body. When I learned the right way of the human body, I had not true issues with the human body or sex. I was in control because I had knowledge of it. Scientifically one can say that Hollywood does not cause teenagers to have sex, but they do not do anything to be responsible of their own bodies. There is a lot to learn about the human body then sex practices, or the maturity there of.

I have said this before. Children can be kept away from all the predators if they are taught by their parents about their own bodies. When children are taught at home to the limit of their capabilities about the human body, then the better it is for them to deal with all the ugliness that comes out of child abuse. When children walk into the web of predators, then it is way too late for children to deal with protecting themselves.

Parents cannot wait till congress comes up with a better idea in teaching children in schools. Children have parents for a very good reason: to be taught by them on things that only parents can rightfully do. Schools cannot teach about values. Churches cannot do this either. There are way too many children even in a church for them to teach properly one on one. Some individuals or faiths have even abused children sexually as it has been on the news lately.

When parents can spend quality time one on one with their own children then that can make a giant difference with their children. No one know their children then the parents. So what is the right information vs the bad?

Sex Education Learning The Truth (part 1 of 3)

Sex Education Learning The Truth (part 2 of 3)

Sex Education Learning The Truth (part 3 of 3)

After listening to these three audio message, parents do you understand that you can be the only one to teach your own children. If you want to allow your own children to teach themselves, please be there for them if they need to ask questions. By being there for them for the great deal of their lives while they are children, you can be there for them on other reasons then teaching them about the human body. Only you as parents can make a big difference in your children's lives. Please do the right thing. Thank you for your time.

Brandon

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